Woman as unknown flower

Meeting the woman, don't think of sex at all.
Only patologichny people think of sex, the healthy person doesn't think of sex. There is no need. You enjoy beauty of the woman, her face, her eyes, her proportions, you are bewitched by her being. At you doesn't arise think of something to do with her, there is no thought to use her, there is no thought to possess.

You are extremely interested by her, but is very innocent.
You have no plans in mind about her, any future, then it is the virgin relations.

Once the love can happen.
Once listening to music, dancing together, the love can capture both of you: you can make love with each other. But even making love, in your mind there will be no ideas. Such is innocent mind, the virgin relations are that.

It is what I mean under "virginity".
Christ couldn't be given birth from the virgin in that sense in what it is presented by Christians, it is absurdity and nonsense. In my understanding "virginity" means purity, the virginity means not impurity, the virginity means spontaneity. The virginity means simplicity, innocence.

And sex isn't a problem. A problem is concern.