Introducing the Self Affirmation Junkie to Steemians!

Hi, my name is Jimoh Aryindey. I am a husband and a father of two, a teacher and a self-help addict. I was an insanely shy child with ridiculously low self-esteem. All I wanted was to feel secure, valued and loved. Isn’t that what we all want? Most of the time I felt like I could not do anything right. It was simply impossible. The world was so critical and so full of “rules”. It seems that I could never be good enough. So I proceeded to create a mess. I attracted controlling men and women, abuse, and relationship after relationship resulting in heartache, pain and more walls around my heart.

Then I had children of my own, and was consumed with fear and worry. Would I or could I be a good enough Father to these 2 perfect little beings? I want something different for them. I want confident, happy, successful and secure child, who, unlike me, do not look to others for love, self-worth and acceptance. I had nicknamed myself an “affirmation junkie!”

Thank you for taking the time to read my first post on Steemit. So, please follow me as I will be consistently updating and posting tips and techniques that will shift your life, the lives of your children, and future generations!