Understanding the Internet Life! I see you – you see me

Our world has changes so much. Faster then we can catch our breath but at the same time we savored the technology that is there for us to make either our life easier or more complicated.

It does disconnect so many of us – as we seen now the world through a screen, chat with the loves ones around the world it’s almost impossible to think we have arrived to such of level of disconnection that make us different. Still to this day we continue to emphasize that technology and as blind as we can get we allowed ourselves to be into this world from another dimension.

Not everyone has family to be or kids. But lots of us will use this entity to define the reality of our world that has become so disconnected.

I’ve been on social media for years. Everyone has a story and that story make you stronger where in some point of your life you will encounter new people that will either change your life or either change their life. Social Media is a vicious circle no matter what you say or do. People will find you, will criticism you, will love you, will hate you, will follow you, will play you, will scam you, will hack you, will betrayed you or even will copy you. No matter where you turn there is no more TV drama that we watch at night but turn instead our little screen to see who is there, what is the news, what is happening. The new Hollywood has changed to more a life feed of our daily routine.

It’s funny how we are trying to convince ourselves that we are not connected to any device to any extend but still feel the need to turn it on. Post our thought or share our memories from bad to good. We are becoming the actors and actress of the year. Some are better then others and that is why most people of this entity want to see more.

I am in social media because I want to make a difference. I want to be there for those who are alone, I cannot change the world but if I can be there for one person behind that screen and make him or her smile. I am happy. I am also using this entity from learning how to navigate to a better journey and surrounded myself by great entity.

I have encounter different personality in my life, social media is no different but the problem with this entity sometimes you don’t know who is behind this pictures. As much as you want to believe, your walls are up unless you have seen this person through a video and/or through a seminar, which he or she is one of the leaders, but believe is a strong word you are trying to define and analyze if this person should be into your circle. You become your own detective of this entity to protect yourself from the unknown

We are all naïve by wanted more kindness, more love, more support and allowing ourselves to let someone believe it’s worth it. People want more, people want to believe, people want to find love, people are watching and it’s a vicious circle because when something happening then you can be sure you will receive a private message from the discomfort of any situation that will be asked to pass it through friends only if you are not the target yourself!

This is what I call the Cop Call, The Cop Wall….

I am in no drama, trying to run away from that and trust me when I say received tons of private message to either warn me or telling me, Flirting with me with non sense pictures…in such of way that your mind gets so confuse but mostly annoying.

And still today – you are wonder why people do such thing. It would take a lifetime to understand the mind of someone doing this. We think we get better over the years but that is the thing – the people who are manipulating any situation from any kind from social media are getting better at it!

Our faith to believe has reduced tremendously but still today we allowed ourselves to have hope let the technology driving us by God will. We think by being part of a private group will reduce the stress we encounter and hope to get more reality by connecting one to another.

But no matter what; you stay true to yourself, honest and keep your integrity. You draw the line with the problem you have on hand and if it does happen to be resolve; soviet if not move on. Life is too short and if anyone cannot be honest and be there for you as a friend, a lover, and a family – this is what its call BLOCK – man! Don’t we love that feature…we feel guilty but at the end of the day – you don’t need no more drama. You are either getting block or blocking someone.

I never used Facebook or any social media to find loves..It would be nice as it would be way cheaper then going to a dating site but that is the reality, how far we are willing to let our heart drift through this – but I do know a small percentage of this world did – is it incredible it’s amazing but that work only if both parties are honest and share that bond to be without cheating through the cyber of this internet of hidden secret of texting.

As open mind as I do have, I am no different then any other woman but yes, I have been flattered by the smile and charms of so many but only one succeed to grasp my attention to be. Sure enough I do miss some of our connection; However to this day, I draw the line and only time will tell – still single to this day but it’s ok – I never regret anything in my life and I am not about to. My past was hard but I know one day God has a plan and if not well I did my best in everything I touch, I’ve encountered or did in my life.

I have dream like anyone else. I don’t have all the answer but the fear to growth old alone always cross my mind and as I have accepted it’s ok – it’s a life to be. Some woman or man will get a joy of this single life because they don’t want to get hurt anymore but as you get older you do miss from times to times THE ones who would bloom you away again.

Some soul of this planet will continue searching and searching trying to full fill an empty space – and that will take a lifetime by the time he or she realized it’s too late. I wish happiness to those who are searching, hiding and wanted more to find the light from their darkness side and hope one day they will be smiling and enjoy to this day what life has to offer because they finally attached their heart to one soul of their long journey.

I am not saying to close all door to any possibility of any kind. Not everyone is telling the true because they want to look good, they want so much then the neighbour, which push them to do that. Rich or poor it doesn’t matter, it’s what is going on into their mind to do such a thing. But to this day – so many people know how to find you and what you do, what you like. You cannot hide anymore; it’s just a matter of time.

We can protect ourselves from the junkies of this cyber world but everybody change at some point of their life. It won’t last because life is too short so the pleasure they get now – will be very painful later as the ages and time catch up on them. You only hope God will highlight them to a better path and serve their purpose of life.
Told you – there is no point to understand those who are off track, which will take a lifetime.

If they are good enough to be in your circle – continue to be their friends. If your friendship become serious well actions speak louder then words and no matter what social media is surrounding you – Love is stronger then anything and trust to an healthy relationship is the base from the connection you have developed. However when your friendship is a business deal be careful sometimes this can destroy something where you can’t take it back.

It doesn’t matter where you meet people, how you meet people. What matter is how you treat them and respect them the same way you would like anyone to respect you and treat you the way it should be.
Our world is so harsh, painful to watch from times to times, life lost, as we don’t understand as to why. So every minute you have into this world, into this entity make sure you make a difference and make sure you are true to yourself. Not by having pictures from an actor who is not you, a picture of a soldier and god’s know with respect to his or her service it’s a non-sense to fake your profile.

Don’t use porno – why- people are not attracted to this and don’t put yourself lower then what they are asking, You are so beautiful it’s not worth it. Don’t be scare but be out here and one day weather it’s for love, business, friendship it’s ok to feel that way.

If you dare to be part of a dating online, be honest. Most of us do not want to be part of a free dating online because we think most of them are not serious. Is it true? It’s questionable but at the end of the day, it’s how you connect that count, how you are honest and you want to go along the way with that person to be. Life is too short so before you reach the other dot of this world – make it worth the way it should be.

Learn to accept the things you can’t change and allowed yourself to have an open mind. It’s going to be ok –

Sincerely

Julie Kenk