You can't do things your way
A small rabbit goes to the pond to fish. He does not fish for a long time.The next day, the rabbit went fishing again.On the third day, the rabbit went fishing in the pond. A fish jumped out of the water and growled at the rabbit, "can't you use carrot as bait?"
Perception: in life, we often think that what we like is also liked by others. Habitual thinking makes us do many stupid things, but we do not look for the reason from ourselves.