It really depends. I have a quite adventurous life (I am Italian living in different Asian countries since 6 years), which forces me to make decisions continously. Before to make a choice, which I do very often (change a job, change of country), I do really need to ponder a lot, sometimes I overthink it. Sometimes I am just not ready for it and I have to discuss within myself and adjust my mind to it as "preparation" to be brave and change things.
Thank you for your post!