How to pick up girls online - with real life examples.

For you to have a girl willing to meet you in real life from your online interactions, you will need to first reflect on yourself, collect your thoughts and have a well rounded understanding of who you are and your place in the world. This means you should first feel comfortable in your skin and your outlook on life, it doesn't mean you need to conform to expectations. You do not necessarily need to be successful yet, wholesome, or a feminist to be relatable or desirable to women but only really need to own your own space.

Below is my first example where an interaction has been started from commenting on a girls Tinder profile content:

After I referenced her profile I tried to bring humor into the conversation early, but i also eluded to the fact I am broke (haha) by including a comment that about being a trouble maker. This comment was vague but it was also a reference to something in my life, at this point I am trying to catch her attention but also gauge her personality while competing in the tens of messages she probably would get from other men today. I think at this point she is interested in my creativity but this does not always work as everyone is different, but you will see by the last message she has looked at my profile and reference its content.

We all have positive attributes and negative habits so it is essential to make sure you separate yourself from the crowd and her view, but also connect on a personal level somehow. Ask questions but remember the two most commonly asked questions on dating sites are - What are you studying? Where do you work? (these questions transform the conversation into a competition of career success so to speak.. if you don't think you can compete or stand out from the crowd I recommend not asking those two directly).

So you can see I am not picking up signals of unhealthy behavior, I am still in the running as a potential partner, there is engagement and exchange of personal information, the length of message has grown substantially since initiating the conversation and the woman is asking questions.

This conversation took place over the past 48 hours and can continue in the same fashion illimitably. At this stage I just need to ask her for a coffee in the same fashion that has created the engagement. Uplike and comment your thought.