How to get self
How to get self-confidence is the central issue when tackling about
the development of self confidence in an individual who, for long,
have believed that his self-worth is deficient.
It goes without saying that those confident individuals can bear themselves
better than those who have lower sense of the "self". They are the
achievers, the people of the limelight, the center of the society. They walk
straight, speak their meanings very well and influence people, both subtly
and obviously. In short, they are those who care recognizable even from
afar.
Sometimes, self-confident people are very much loved by the society. It is
maybe due to their charisma or they are, by nature very amiable. However,
there are those self-confident individuals who, just by leaving makes the
room lighter.
These are two very dissimilar display of self-confidence. One, destroys a
person's credibility and the other intensifies his personality. And obviously,
you would not want the consequences of being too confident of yourself that
the people no longer view you as effective, instead they see you as
annoyance to their daily affairs.
Self-confidence comes from within. Outside stimulation may help but it
would all still boil down to knowing yourself and using that knowledge to
gain confidence.
To get self-confidence, you must realize that your limitations must not limit
you and your attributes must not destroy you. Instead, use all these factors
to develop a personality that would be productive for you and all those that
surround you.
"Know thyself!", says the Oracle at Delphi. Though this might have been said
thousands of years ago, it is undeniably true that we still can use the
wisdom it says.
Know yourself and get confidence. Recognize though that knowledge comes
nowhere but inside you. Thus, you have to accept the reality that unless you