Hello dear crowd1 booster community.hello everyone i am @waqarrubab from Pakistan 🇵🇰 first of all i would like to thank @yourloveguru for organizing such an interesting contest i would love to express my thoughts on it so let’s begin.

I am 22 years old and i am not married yet. I believe Marriage is a beautiful bond between two people it is like a commitment of supporting each other in ups and downs of life and indeed God has created us in pairs i am not married yet but still in my 22 years age visual experience i have seemed alot of things. So for me I believe in both arrange and love marriage because it depends on the partner or the person from whom we are marrying not on the type of marriage whether it’s arrange or love.if there is no understanding respect care or love if there are no equal efforts from both sides it’s not gonna work.

Love marriages

When it comes to love marriages there comes a factor of love a beautiful union of two people who chooses to spend their life together. There can be advantages and disadvantages of love marriages

Advantages:
Both boy and girl choose each other on their own preference By their own choice in love marriage they both have better understanding as they know each others likes dislikes before the marriage they have respect and care for each other but this is only possible when the love is true and equal from both sides.
Disadvantages :
Lover marriages also have disadvantages for example when we love someone we have a lot of expectations from that certain person which in the end hurts us. Same in love marriages both the partners have higher expectations from each other as they have already dreamed a life with each other and have made promises with each other and if the other person won’t get able to fulfill all the promises this leads to disappointment in a relation as we all know that life not always goes the way we want we have to compromise on somethings also higher expectations leads to higher disappointment and conflicts. Another disadvantage of love marriage is that it gets very hard for both the couples to satisfy their parents about their partners that is the reason a lot of people quite their long relationships. When their families won’t get agreed.

Arrange marriages

Advantages
Arrange marriages gives sense of security as families are involved in it. And they always try to make sure that the relationship goes smoothly.
Disadvantages:
In arrange marriages there is less understanding among partners as they don’t know each other there is less emotional and physical attraction among couples in arrange marriages. Sometimes arrange marriages are usually influenced by the societal factors for example money status education work etc which result in less satisfying marriage..

Happy married life:

A happy Married life requires love ,respect ,efforts understanding and communication from both sides Marriage is like a wheel it require teamwork and balance to face all the difficulties of life if one wheel won’t work right the other wheel will automatically stop working just like two partners a single person can’t do anything in a relationship.Both partners have to invest to build a happy married life.Also communication is a best way to make a marriage “A happy marriage” communication leads to better understanding and understanding leads to healthy relationships respecting caring and loving each other.Always standing by each other sides in ups and downs will leads to a happy married life. It doesn’t matter whether the marriage love or arrange what does matter is whether the marriage is happy or not.

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