Steemit Engagement Challenge S8-W1 | LOVE IS MAGICAL WHEN IT IS SECURED.

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Steemians worldwide. I salute you all from the Northwest region of cameroon. it’s another great contest. I really want to use this opportunity to say thank you to @steemcameroon for putting up such a great contest. So I invite you all to come with me as I pour in my thoughts about“Love is magical when secured”.

Love doesn’t make the world go round, it is what makes the ride worthwhile.
In this age of science, many people see supernatural forces as illusions rooted in wishful thinking. But love remains a profound exception to humanity’s trend toward rationality.
Let’s look at how magical thinking can be adaptive despite being based in fantasy. Unlike a lease agreement, emotions are often turbulent and unpredictable. More than just a feeling of connection, believing in a narrative that suggests your relationship is magical (meant to be), could provide a consistent reason to stick together for the long haul. A neuroscientist once said and I quote “love is an unreasonable bond that becomes reasonable by virtue of its own existence.” So even if magical love doesn’t make sense, it makes sense for love to feel magical.

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There’s nothing quite like the bonds we form through love. The Hard-work we put in to love is what makes it Magical. Love is magical, and sometimes it takes a really good song to remind us of just how special it is that we get the opportunity to experience such a remarkably profound and complex sensation.
The magic of love is part of what can keep a couple committed for the long term. A magical belief in fated love is almost certainly objectively false, if it helps to cement a long-term commitment to a good partner, it fulfills an adaptive purpose and can therefore be considered “deeply rational.”

Yes I do feel secure when in love. This is because when in love I always have complete confidence that the person (be it family, friends, or partner) is there for me and not just sometimes. It means my struggles and fears are not mine to bear, but theirs too.

1.The Love between God and Man

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This is the most magical and most secure love which exist. God’s love is not based on emotions, God doesnot love because we are good people or because we exalt Him. But God loves because He is love. God clearly demonstrates His love towards us in that He gave us His Son Jesus Christ so that we may know Him, we are loved, so that we may be secure in His love.

2.In the case of a Mother and child(Children)
Mother is the most selfless person in this world who starts loving her children even before they come into this world. A mother’s love is considered possessive affection where a mother protects her offspring at all cost. A magical and secure love is demonstrated by mothers in that they act as our best friends, mentors, caretakers, etc. A mothers love is the purest form of love in this world.

3.In a case where couples are committed to each other
A committed relationship is one filled with Love,Trust,respect etc. these are what makes up a magical relationship. You both are happier staying together. A committed relationship you will always find Open communication, partners play and relax, there is freedom to participate in activities alone or with friends etc. As such the love is magical and secure.

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The statement “love is magical when secured” will have the same impact on everyone in that this type of love promotes emotional and mental well being in that it can be linked to higher self-esteem, increased sense of self worth and improve self confidence to me, my friends, family and even the society. Love makes the society a peaceful and better place for everyone.

Regardless of whether you're married or not,
your romantic partner is someone you've
chosen to navigate life with. In order for your
relationship foundation to be strong, both
partners must feel safe and secure. Feeling secure in your romantic relationship allows you to connect deeper with the most important person in your life. It frees you to discuss desires and fears, and to be
vulnerable in these discussions.

By this post I will like to invite @newtonb, @jane-mary and @wirngo to participate in this contest.