This is an amazing insight. I love the way you presented it with some hidden humour 😊. Actually not to make it complicated i usually say, because its rare to find all best qualities in one person, have a minimum you won't compromise no matter what and when you identify in that person the attitude of acceptance when reproched and the willingness to grow above a shortcoming, then that's a good deal. Secondly, i tell everyone to personally reflect the type of person they want because you attract who you are.