BECAUSE IT DIDN'T WORK FOR YOU, DOESN'T MEAN IT WON'T WORK FOR OTHER PEOPLE

Hello steem cameroon, and the world at large. It's with great pleasure writing this little piece titled BECAUSE IT DIDN'T WORK FOR YOU, DOESN'T MEAN IT WON'T WORK OUT FOR OTHER PEOPLE.

There is no template to life and we all have different destinies, which however unfold in different ways and at different times. Many people tend out to copy the life style of others and want the same pattern of the way things unfolded for them to unfold the same way for them, whereas that's not the way life is.

I will be quoting some very few examples of instances which might work out for some people and won't work out for others.

1. MARRIAGES/ RELATIONSHIPS
   I always have have a positive mind set when it concerns marriage and I often say to myself that because i see people having broken, or so many problems in marriage doesn't mean mine will be the same.
   Some people equally believe there is a particular pattern to finding a soulmate, some people get to married prostitutes and they tend out to be the very best while other's go for the "church types" and it somehow didn't work out for them.

Someone ones told that getting married at very young age is very strenuous because you start experiencing the normal marital problems at a very tender age, but i told her that because your at the verge of divorce doesn't mean my own will tend out to be like your own.

Some people equally think a girl making the bery first move means that relationship won't move anywhere, but I have seen a girl who asked her boyfriend out and they are happily married today.

1. CHOOSING A CAREER
   Some people may have been in a particular career for years and somehow they are unable to make a living out of it. It's quite unfortunate that someone who came into that same field after you did will tend to excel so well more than you can ever imagine.

There is this verse in the bible in the book of proverbs 20 which says "AS A MAN THINKETH SO IS HE" I believe every happens first in out minds and the manner in which we all work towards it.