Greetings to all my fellow steemians. Today as due examination with my past experience I decided to share with you the reason why some people decide to hate others just for nothing. It’s so funny to meet someone you do not know and after being with him or her for sometime, they decide for their own reason to talk bad about you as if your life depends on them to decide.
People do not hate you because you are a bad person but simply because you are unique in your ways and they just can’t stand it.

Not everyone loves every single person on earth. It’s a reality in life that many can name those they do not like in life. However, there are some moments where people reach some levels where that hatred start and by so they become frustrated with people and start to hate people.

When someone have such feeling of hatred for others, it becomes hard to deal with people or interact with people because those you will want to interact with certainly will be afraid and tries to avoid you and that’s normal. Such hatred have lead to lots of problems in such relationships be it friends, family or colleagues. Such an emotion of disliking proper is also a serious problem to your health.

In this post I will be sharing with you reasons why people hate others and as well the dangers in your health.

Some Reasons Why People Might Hate Others

• Stress:
  Sometimes, stress can make you panicked and at times becomes angry to others. When one becomes so angry all times it’s normal he feels like transferring the anger to others.

• Social anxiety: Social anxiety always make people finding it difficult to interact with other people because of their attitudes and way of approach to others. This usually makes u embarrassed and as well to be fear and suspends to others. Persons with social anxiety sometimes react to some situations which make them uncomfortable due to their level of anger and hatred to others.

• Ideological differences: Sometimes when you are from a certain political, religious or cultural, beliefs different from your other friends, many can cause you to be angry with them and hatred to others who aren’t in the same cycle like you. This is because mentality can lead to hatred and anger most especially portraying a certain circumstance.

Coping Strategies

Despite such behavior as discussed above, that doesn’t make one a bad person but he or she can still decide to adapt to some coping strategies to better help interact with people.

Firstly, one can avoid from over thinking: If you hate others because of a disagreement with them, it’s time you try to disagree with them without necessarily being angry or hating them. Those goes with situations like debates amongst friends.
For the reason that you disagree with someone’s behavior is not a reason to term him bad. It’s always good to avoid feeling of hate for someone because of an issue.

Secondly it’s good to avoid generalization: some people’s hatred or dislike is focus on a group of persons and this may include, region, tribes and even religion. This is very irrational of you as you turn generalizing things. This is sometimes base on assumptions because people feels like if one person from certain tribe kills a friend of yours that’s means anybody from that tribe is a killer of bad person. It’s wrong to do such generalizations.

Moreso, it’s good to be self care: If you over stress it would be good to make good changes to your ways so as to be resilient or as well it may be good to set distance from others so as to be comfortable and happy.

Last but not the least, it’s always good to try a therapy: Therapy can assist you cool your feelings and get to know why you hate people. This goes a long way to build a strong and lasting relationship with friends, colleagues and family.

To conclude the basis above, seeing people disliking others sometimes is just because of pride, competition, jealousy and loneliness. It’s but normal that no one can’t have all he or she wishes to. Sometimes you hate people for nothing just because they are happy while others hate because you have money than them. We fight within ourselves for nothing. It’s high time we change our attitudes and make some changes to love one another.
Thanks for finding time to read and comment my post.