Creative Writing | If he can't take care of you, Dump him

A man was not made to provide for a woman, a husband was made to provide for his wife. If you are a woman, stop looking for a man who will take care of you. This dependency is the reason why rich men can't be faithful. Because many girls will be looking for someone to settle thier bills.

"If he can't take care of you, dump him." This mindset is the main reason why it is difficult to find great women in politics, business, in authority, etc. How do you want to rule over the one taking care of you?

Most of the girls of this generation want to look good without requisite resources to maintain it. You want iphone 14 without money for data? Are you not a vampire? How will you update that phone? As Africa is depending on the western world and is not developing, So it is for woman to man.

In Africa, house wife is a job that employs more than the government. Sister let us tell you, if the mindset of meeting your needs by the medium of relationship doesn't evade your minds, Africa can't develope. The strongest work force of Africa and the church have been employed as house wives.

It's equally sad that when we want to talk of success in church, it is difficult to find christians that are world voices apart from pastors. When we are using successful people, we don't mention Rihanna, Beyoncé, Shakira because they are worldly .

But we mention Steve jobs, Bill Gates, Dangote, Barrack Obama, etc. They are worldly people, but we use this side as example in churches. Meaning, in the domains where these men became example for the church, church people too can excell in those areas.

Africa cannot develop with football, kick boxing or body building. Infact, entertainment can't develop the continent. The person paying a player is richer than the player, and owns the player. Those people give some Africans fame in entertainment and control the united nations.

The church needs to groom people that will be sent abroad for studies in technology and business, so as to transform our raw materials into finished products. There is no need for big pentecostal ministries having too much money in accounts for human glory and record, while when Jesus will come, all those resources will be useless. Stop learning make-ups and cakes and ending there we can do more.

The problem of Africa is food, infrastructure, leadership. But almost everyone youth wants to be a TikToker, Youtube influencer or musicians. They spend energy for content creation. How can we develop when everyone wants to do online comedy. Have you seen an African politician child become a TikToker? We are majoring on the Minor.

Marriage is good but the biblical Impact makers weren't people that made impact by marriage, but by solving the problems of their days, there is no hero of faith we read that says by faith, this person married that perso. Marriage without vision is an insult to divine agenda and a danger to the offsprings of such union.

Let me carry my wahala and be going. God bless you all. Shalom❤️