How to Manage Work and Home Life as a Mother.
Greetings dear steemians and happy weekend to everyone. In today's writeup, i will be giving tips on how ladies can manage their homes as workers. To begin with, women are the strongest emotional Being God created on planet earth. In our community we notice that majority of the women that have kids be it married or single struggle by all cost to get something doing or economically empower themselves per say. That not withstanding, they still have alot of commitments at home.
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In our normal day to day lives, home chores are obligatory to carryout daily. If you are a mother and still has a job the first thing that you need to do is to come out with a work plan. Draft a daily time table on the to do things and make sure you do not over do. Where you get tired relax or try to get some rest. It is noticed in our today's community that, 85% of women are going through high stress level, why? This is because their partners vehemently refuse to help them in doing some of the household chores or cater for the kids. Come to think of it, you as a man goes to work, she goes to work as well. But you expect her to take care of you, the kids, and the home all alone. It is not easy and is as well heart breaking seeing women go through this alone. Work life balance is great for a woman, her home and the children.
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When children reach the schooling age, it is advisable for the mother or parents to always make sure a child goes to school with a lunch box no matter how demanding the job is. And when she comes back home, make sure you go through her book, listen to her talk about everything she wants to air out. Listening with keen attention enables the parent understand exactly what went on in school and keeps her updated of her child's wellbeing no matter her busy schedule.
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Furthermore, if you are a breast-feeding mother, or the baby is still very young that you can't admit him/her in a school yet, make sure you plan ahead of time inorder to prepare the child's milk or food. This will give you confidence of what the baby ingests in your absence. In cases where you can afford a nanny, make sure she is right for your family, make sure she will be available when need arises, check if she is experienced in child's care, look into her background and qualification, lastly follow-up or show up unexpectedly to make sure she goes along well with the child or children.
In conclusion, it is not easy to be a mother and a worker at thesame time especially when all the work is on you the woman. Husbands should work hard on helping their partners with home chores and catering of their children inorder to maintain a pure and happy environment.
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Wow!! Ma, you have handle a very sensitive topic here. I have witnessed this done in many marriages. I am a married man and in my marriage, my wife and I do partnership in all the work. If she is cooking I am with our child. If she is with the child, I am cooking. Many of us men think that a woman has to do everything plus taking care of you her husband. She cooks, take care of your child, go to work, take care of you, clean the house, dashes, wash your clothes and so on and you sit as "Boss". Your wife is your helper not your slave. Partner with your wife and erase conflict and crises from your family. Give your wife reason to marry you again in the next world. Thank you sister.
Mothkers are gold. we can't enumerate their importance and they need all the assistance
Great write up hope my to be mother’s have read it
Wish was a mother but this will go viral
I will like to say kiddos to all the married men who take out time to help their wives do laundry, cook and babysit. And to the love of my life I say I will say I appreciate him for always helping me out with the kids and home chores. To upcoming men, Please do your best to make the woman of your dreams to feel that special at all time.
To be a mother and building a career can be challenging especially when your partner is one of those who thinks assisting your partner is feminism
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Great!!very inspiring.
Thanks for the write up
What a great write up. Many sees it funny especially men to do some house chores. Many thing it’s only a woman to do it but forgetting marriage is 50/50. Taking your wife as a play partner and assisting her especially when both of you are working becomes an environment for a better family