Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting and knowledgeable contest which is launched by @chant all time my favourite topic "Are Dowries Dehumanizing??" So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic

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Dowry is a social problem which has no solution. It may not be a problem for the boy's family and it may not be a problem for the girls whose fathers are rich. But for a poor family, the birth of a girl is a problem. Because in a poor family, as soon as a girl is born, along with happiness, the parents start worrying about arranging dowry for her marriage.

The better the dowry you give, the better the groom your daughter will get. No matter how many qualities and values ​​a girl has, we get to know later. But the first question asked is how much money the father is spending. Very few people will be found who bring home their son's bride with just two pairs of clothes. Here people want to show humanity, but their feelings are different, everyone wants dowry.

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In earlier times, girls were burnt for dowry. Ugh... what a horrible and painful scene it must be, you burn someone's daughter for money.

Shame on such people and such thinking.

I ask who gave them the right to burn someone's daughter. Hey, you are not understanding, you can leave it, don't marry, but don't kill someone's daughter.

In our community also, dowry is demanded in both physical and monetary forms. The boy's family wants a lot of respect. They want cash, gold and other electronic goods in the functions.

They want a very good venue for the wedding. They want a theme party for the wedding. They don't think about the status of the other person or whether he will get upset. They are only concerned about their own things. It seems that they are not marrying their son, they are selling him. It is a bitter thing but true.

Look, there is a social evil, but nowadays everything is going on like a herd mentality. Wealthy people spend a lot of money in their daughters' weddings, so their children also dream that their marriage will also be like this. Parents spend their whole life fulfilling their children's dreams, so this is a social evil. Because giving as a gift is one thing and giving out of compulsion is another thing.

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I have seen in many places that if the parents have ₹800000 then the boy's side says, we want 15 lakhs, so if the girl likes the boy very much then the parents have to try.

So in this way everyone is involved in social evil. Be it any class, everyone is giving and taking dowry at their own level.

There is no solution to the problem of dowry system, because the takers are taking and the givers are giving happily. The government has made a law that those who take dowry will be punished. But people do not want to get into these troubles. Dowry has become a social necessity.

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Because now people's thinking has also become like that, we have to give this or we have to take this. But I say that we spend so much on food and decoration in marriage. If we make this money in FD in the name of the girl then the future of both the boy and the girl will be secure and they will be able to live a good and good standard of life. Do whatever is necessary in marriage. Everyone has many dreams and it is also important to fulfill them, so fulfill the important dreams, secure your future by not getting into useless show-off.

I would invite my few friends @mvchacin , @edgargonzalez , @kouba01 , @eliany

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