Controlling anger

Edited with @Canva

Greetings to you all my fellow steemians on the steemit platform, it's time to share with you guys another interesting moment by engaging in this outstanding contest, titled, controlling anger.
On this contest, you will get to knowsome certain things that usually got me angry, how I address anger issues, and what I think about anger.

That was me in the past, it's happened when I was young, during that time I was also a stammer (great difficulty speaking) also, you can imagine how someone who's a stammer can be very quick in getting angry.

I still remember that time when we played football in our community as the match was going on one opponent mistakenly mashed my leg, without even wait for him to say sorry I started fight immediately 🤣 that was really unfair.

But guess what? if they want to mark people who easily get angry now, I will be excluded, why, because I'm no more such a person
But how? 😳A friend of mine who was having the same problem of anger and difficulty speaking problem advice me on how he gradually correct the errors, he referred to me on great publication titled Benefit from theocratic ministry school the book was really helpful, it helps me learn how to speak fluently and also a tips on how to solve the problem of being a stammer.
I apply the tips it work out, since that time I start learning how to control my anger issues and become good in that aspect.

I was dube by someone whom I didn't believe he would have done such thing to me , that was really a bad experience that makes me lose calm.

It was 4 month ago when one of my regular client visit me in my work place and told me that he needed my help that he wants some money to solve urgent issues that concerning life (amount close to 200 steem) since he was somebody I see regularly and know for a long time I didn't have any fear or doubt.

He told me that he will refund the money back in two weeks time, but after giving him the money could you believe that two weeks came and pass, two months came and pass also meanwhile his phone number was switch off all this while, it was not really bordering me until it was time that I wanted to do important thing with the money.

After four months plus I said let me try calling him again if at all I will be lucky, to my greatest surprised his phone number rang but since he knew that I was the one calling he refused to pick up the called after some hours I use another person number to call him be pick but immediately he heard my voice, do you know what he did next? He switch off the phone back, the situarion was really getting me angry, since then his phone number always switch off .
If it was you what would have been your next step?

The last reason that made me angry was embarrassment from someone by looking down on my views, my ideas and my thoughts, it always making me feel angry an embarrassed that day.
I hate it when someone always see his or herself right and see others wrong.

Getting angry is not bad in fact getting angry is normal thing, most time we get angry to express our feeling about something or someone most time getting angry might be the only way to solve issues, even the book of life stated that one should get angry but shouldn't commit sin, that simply means that is not bad to get angry.
What is bad is our reaction when we get angry that is why I love the tilte of this contest controlling anger

From here I hang my boots, it's my pleasure to invite @mmesoma15 ,@jewel005 and @victorlives to participate too.

Best regards

@cotina