Controlling anger

Anger is one of the toughest flaws that stuck human being in this world, this is because human being keep provoking a fellow human without realizing he or her mistakes. At times we try to overcome anger but because we're not perfect, imperfection has role over our soul and it makes it complicated to control anger, at times with a tough fight, we managed to control this flaw.

I'm so delighted to engage in this ongoing contest which is titled "controlling anger" and in this post, I'll use my busy schedule to share my perspective about controlling anger, I hope you guys will kindly journey with me.

_{Expressing my angry face.}

I look ugly whenever I get angry, that's the reason I always try to control this flaw of mine. At times we get angry unexpectedly and when it happens, it's always complicated to control because we didn't expect, so it just occurred and we can't help.

No. I don't easily get angry but at times I'd get angry. You might wonder why I don't easily get angry but don't panic, it is because I don't easily get rid of anyone who got me angry; it takes times for me to forgive in whole heartedly though i might roll freely with the person.

Anger start to develop in my hormone when people threaten me, at this point i get upset and I become impatient or I lose my calmness. But mind you, it takes a whole lot of months before I get to this mood; the reason is, Is carefully select the kind of people in play with, the kind of people i walked with, these people despite the fact that they're not perfect, they tried their best to abide to our friendship rules.

I respect myself by staying in my own yard, I don't start conversation with strangers except you're my friend. I put my mind in happy things and do what I love doing like taking pictures, playing football when the chance presents itself. By this way, I don't expose myself to people who'll get me angry, this is how I managed to live my life without continuously or easily getting angry. This lifestyle cost.

_{Expressing my angry face.}

Ignoring. I feel bad, angry and at the same time; worthless when people ignore me, infact this is the main reason I love to stay in my own yard and remain silent because I don't want to expose myself to silly people who can get me angry unexpectedly.

Consistently talking about something I did wrong. I feel bad when I wrong and my conscience will always disturb me, honestly appreciate when people see my wrong and caution me, but it hurt me and i get angry when people repeatedly talk about the thing i did wrong.

Injustice. This is another situation that trigger my calmness. I can confidently spell that everyone get angry when they get robbed by people, squeezing my justice and judging me without getting the right awareness will change my moon to bad, sometimes I cry in my heart.

Bullying. When I talk about bully, I mean word bullying. This type of bullying is very easy to trigger my calmness thereby providing me, it can lead to exchanging hate speech with anyone who trigger my peace. This is why I carefully select the people I called my friends.

Injustice. I just mentioned injustice among the situation that changed my mood to bad and this question comes in. Talking of injustice, I've encountered this situation in several occasions in my place of work. Let me share the last one that happened with you guys.

I'm a staff in a pure water company know as merneke table water in my locality and we have water vendors who depend in us whenever they want to load waters in their distribution machine. In that day I was actually loading water to one of our vendors and it was time for putting repacking for him (this are waters that leak but the workers reselect the leakage away and tighten the good ones.)

The rules is "put 10 bags of repacking to everyone vendor" and I was trying to abide when the vendors hitted me in my chest, i mean a very serious hit and I felt thr pain, I didn't hit him back because my boss doesn't accept fight. Guess what guy's!! The vendor called my boss and boosted his head with all types of lie and when he arrived, he stood with the vendor.

Even when I forcedly tried to make a say, he didn't listen instead, he shouted at me. You know why?? because the vendor was the first person to called him on phone even before he arrived to the company. Sincerely I was hungry and even though I didn't cry out, i did in my soul.

To be angry isn't a bad thing, but how we handled it does. Let's review and judge this question with the Bible principle. Ephesians 4:26; says "Be wrathful, but do not sin; do not let the sun set while you are still angry" let's discuss this Bible accordingly

It's true that the Bible agree we should get angry but it strongly warn us not to allow the sun set while we're angry, it also warn us not to sin when getting angry. In my understanding the following sentences means...

Be wrathful.
We can be extremely angry the way we want, depending on what people did to us.

Don't sin.
It doesn't matter how deep or extremely angry we are, the Bible doesn't accept, agree us to sin because of anger.

Do not let the sun set while you are still angry.
This sentence seems confusable because of the way it is arranged but I can confidently say that it means "we shouldn't for any reason keep whatever that provoke or get us angry, we should forget and forgive before kingdom of God arrive".

After considering the Bible principle, I've come to my final answer with evidence that "to get angry isn't a bad thing but how we handled it does". If possibly we can live without getting angry, we should but if we can't eradicate it entirely, it's understandable but we shouldn't sin; when we sin, that's when our anger is bad or negative.

In conclusion, anger is a flaw that we all borned with since our childbirth and it is very complicated to overcome it. Injustice is one of the reasons people like me get angry though I'd manage to control it. We can be angry and it is understandable but we shouldn't for any reason sin, because God who is our creator will surely rewards us according to our cup of tea.