Learn to be at Peace with Yourself First

It is said that charity begins at home and mostly ends where it begins, what this tells us is that everything starts with us and ends with us. It's like what a great philosopher once said that we are the cost of every problem and we are the same time the solution to the problem. No one can do us better than we can do ourselves.

And in the same vain, no one can do us worse than we can do ourselves, which is why it is important that in all things we put ourselves first especially when it comes to our mental health and general health or wellbeing. Finding that peace within yourself will help you be able to find peace with others. It would go a long way to help you forgive others when they wrong you.

It would also go a long way to help you learn to love others and do so better because you would have found love in yourself, you have learned to love yourself, care for yourself and be ok with yourself even without others. When you are not finding love in others to make you survive, to make you ok, you learn quickly that you are capable of everything and anything and that nothing is beyond you.

So before you make that decision to love another, love yourself first, before you can forgive that individual forgives yourself first, it all stems from the mind, it all stems from your thoughts. Through the renewal of the mind you will be able to achieve everything, just understand the philosophy that begins with you.