"Una imagen, una historia" A child in Man

Hello and Namste my steemian Family,

This is my participation in the contest” And friends of WORLD OF XPILAR, nice to meet you today I want to share my participation in the contest. One image one story, proposed by my friend @franyeligonzalez in WOX

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In his childhood, when Juan Pablo was 12 years old, the juvenile court sent him to a juvenile protection home for a long time for a serious crime.

Not only was his freedom taken away in the juvenile protection home, but his innocence and tenderness also vanished by living with other criminal children.

There he was kept with other teenagers who grew up in slums and criminal homes, who were actually juveniles with criminal tendencies by nature.

Whereas Pablo was a poor child from a civilized and cultured family, who had committed a crime by mistake. But the law enforcers have nothing to do with anyone's family, for them all criminals are seen with the same eyes.

And the result is that even normal children who go to these juvenile protection homes become big criminals or it has a very bad effect on their mental state.

Pablo had to spend the best days of his life i.e. 8 years in this juvenile protection home and when he was released, all the memories of his childhood kept roaming in his mind.

After coming back from there he was not able to behave normally. A strange feeling had set in inside him. Whenever he met someone and asked about his well being, he felt that they were making fun of him.

He felt suffocated inside, but now he was almost 20 years old and he was no longer a child. And he also had no friends of his childhood days and his childhood friends had broken ties with him. So he found himself in an abandoned situation. His mindset was completely under pressure.

Pablo's father was very upset with his loneliness behavior and consulted a psychiatrist. He told Pablo's father that a person who does not have emotionally mature reactions and behavior is called a male child. The wife of such a person may complain about her husband being immature and not behaving like an adult in their relationship.

Such adults have an increased dependence on others for their basic needs. Such a male child often depends on others for his basic functions.

The therapist further explained that it is natural for such an adult to have self-doubt and self-blame, feelings of inferiority, poor judgment, need for admiration, fear of being abandoned, low self-esteem and difficulty in identifying and expressing his feelings, which can only be overcome with a lot of patience, love and affection.

Pablo's father decided from that moment that he would not put any pressure on his child and correct him with patience and love, and that is why now he fulfills his every demand, even today the father and son have come to visit the beach.

There, Pablo remembered his childhood days when he bought a bubble-making toy by putting soapy water in a plastic hose and without caring about anyone, he blew a lot of bubbles with soapy water and hose.Today again he insisted his father to buy him that toy and started blowing bubbles with it with a very joy Today his father also saw a glimpse of light happiness on his face after a long time.

Seeing his happiness, his father also found that weather at the seashore very beautiful; the father could see the rainbow of his golden future in the bubbles blown by Pablo.

I also want to invite here @mehwish-almas , @sualeha, and @josevas217

Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians.

Sur-riti❤️