RE: Reflections - Dancing around Honesty, Vulnerability, and Balance...
Sometimes, when I'm writing and reach a point where I want to pour my emotions into my post, I pause because I feel helpless, thinking I won't be able to express myself fully in English. Emotions are always best conveyed in our mother tongue, so occasionally, the flow is broken.
Writer's block is also real. Some days I feel extremely motivated to write, and other days, nothing comes to mind. To tackle this, I write multiple posts in a day and save them to post later.
Will people not judge you for laying out your weakness in the open?
They might, but what choice do I have? Some days, I just need to pour everything out. I'm sure it's the same for you as well.
As a final note, many users I've known for the last 3-4 years have changed their writing styles over time. We've all evolved, and it's for the better. I've always been public with my identity, but I know users who didn't post their faces before and now do. What matters is doing what suits you, never succumbing to peer pressure.
You're an excellent writer, one of the very few users here I read regularly. Be yourself.
I am going to reply you in roman here!
Ah! Sakoon sey baat ho skti. Yes you are right about the flow of emotions and language barrier. Emotions can be best expressed in your mother tongue!!!
Bilkul sahi baat kee ap ney. English jitni bhi achi ho jae hmari, urdu jitni nai ho skti. I can write in a double speed while writing in roman. Kitna faida hey usi zaban mey sochnay or likhnay ka! Blissful feeling...
Meri post mey zyada focus mera is baat pr hey k jo log rozana post krtay ya boht zyada post krtay, mughey samagh nai ati k wo manage Kaisay krtey hein. Or phir mey ney aik do or topics ko bhi touch kiya hey...
True, the writer and their writing style keeps evolving. Or hona bhi chahiye. Isi ko growth kehtay hein.
Hahaha.... Never in million years. Peers can never pressure me 😉
Thank you for stopping by. It was good to see you :)
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