Luck, the humble words of the successful, the excuses of the losers

I remember when I was in school, the top students in my class would always score high in every exam, and when they were asked how they did it, they often said they were lucky and the questions were easy, but seldom talked about the process of effort. Some of them usually did well, but after they failed in the exam, they complained about their bad luck and the questions were too biased. For their own efforts to be overly sure, I have worked so hard, bad luck, it's really not my fault.

On the contrary, society is also like this. Successful people know that effort is a necessity for good performance, may be accumulation, may be the right method, may be perseverance, good luck is a chance that one's learning ability accumulates to a certain degree for sure.

And we, mediocre people, perform efforts and take the wrong path with the wrong method without knowing it, convinced that luck will fall from the sky. Like to listen to the successful people say rely on luck, so that the ability difference of the plague, the successful people understand this idea, so they say that way, so you love to listen to that kind of rhetoric.

Some people may say, "Is it wrong for me to think that way? How to think is the freedom of people, but easily let other people's words influence thinking, you are wrong. You will stop reflecting, stop making changes to yourself, stop seeking an answer to life's questions.

If you have no questions about life and are content with the status quo, there is no need to read the following. In this era of the pompous pursuit of money and fame, you and I have been the losers who can't make waves but are not willing to do so.

Life is in order or chaos is still only the surface, the inner restlessness of everyone can taste. When the head is idle, the most thought is "how can I be so back? Why am I doing so badly?" "Why so tired?" …… can also why? Because you are a normal person, normal ordinary people, neither with a golden spoon, nor the bottom of society carrying poverty, want a better life with their hands may be able to earn a large part of society's ordinary people.

These people try to make society see their efforts, yes, indeed they are very busy, little time in entertainment. But society does not give generously in return, why? Some people define this as performing hard work, pretending to work hard. They want too much to be affirmed for their efforts, another aspect also shows that such an approach makes them tired and slowly start to know that luck is a lie.

The odds are that the wrong method is being used, what is the right method? I don't think there is a universal method that is right at the beginning, the wrong method is not terrible, terrible is the wrong method is not changed.

Tailor-made methods must be filtered from the experience of others, how many times they have tried. So it is good to feel tired, it means that this method is not suitable for you, and then change the other just fine.

After 00 beauty girl wood juice to participate in the "oddball conference" is known, she is a public number author, but also so the number of fans immediately rose to more than 300,000. Before that, she has written many explosive articles, is a month into 100,000 high school students. Although I do not agree with her point of view, but still respect for this little girl. In order not to gnaw on the old, she did micro-business, cosplay, participate in the talent show, shoot short video, etc, tried N job is to achieve economic independence, and finally found the writing this road. At the beginning, she wrote a public number and no one saw it, then followed more than two thousand public numbers, every day to read other people's articles, to summarize, only to write the first article.

Effort is a kind of human living, some people laugh, live need what effort?

The beautiful and comfortable life you have to work hard, right? The mediocre life you have to try to adapt to it? If one day you don't want to struggle in the water of life, hands and feet down, it's all over.

I used to expect someone to guide me, to learn a universal struggle, and then a magnificent reversal, are fantasy masturbation. It's like seeing a good-looking coat in the mall, the shopper try it on, put it on, a compliment you than the original temperament, poise, look white, show body stripes, thin. So I will fantasize about buying a coat I will rise in value, be impressed by colleagues, meet rich men, after changing their destiny. The money you can spend to change your destiny can be bought, that must be bought. At that time there was no reason, full of fantasy. A coat will not change anything, the only thing that may change the attitude of others to my aesthetics. The only thing that can change is the attitude of other people towards my aesthetics. The inner change is the real change of a person, and it can really change other people's view of themselves. Now I know myself - mediocre qualifications, ordinary people. The days of great wealth and prosperity are difficult in this life, but I am fortunate to have found something I like to do, write about it.

The struggle is courage, failure and success are the same as the norm, know, but also willing to try.

People either try to earn money to live a good life, or try to adapt to a life without money. Once thought life was multiple choice, now know, two choices.

Success either has a direction or a method. Intelligent Master and human play Go, even win 60 games, human masters are not defeated, psychological warfare is useless to it, each move relies on the calculation bar, 51% of the possibility to move the chess. The goal is to win, the method is to calculate. No need to bemoan the future of human beings, but may as well learn intelligent AI, rational to calculate the goal to achieve how much success rate, don't be feverish all day long. After all, it's easier to earn more money and win the goodwill of others than to learn to play Go. Original article, republished with attribution

Secondly, it is better to make breakthroughs in areas you are familiar with, than to explore new areas in the past.

Finally, luck is the inevitable chance after effort. To you and me who have been performing hard, 2021, no more confusion.