RE: Un voto o un Commento (Vote or Comment?)
Honestly, I’m the kind of person who finds it hard to write comments. I’ve always thought that if I don’t have anything specific to say that adds value to the discussion with the author of a post, I simply don’t write anything and just leave my vote. When I created my account about two months ago, I tried to engage with different users, even if my comment didn’t add anything substantial and only expressed that I liked the author’s work. I wanted to write something nice so the author would know they were doing a good job.
The problem was that I didn’t receive any response to those comments. And okay, I get it — maybe someone doesn’t feel like replying with “thanks, I appreciate it” every time. But I didn’t even get a vote from those people, so I don’t even know if they read what I wrote. Each day, this discouraged me more and more from writing comments, and now I’ve settled on this: if something really amazes or intrigues me, or if I have a question, I’ll write a comment. Otherwise, I’ll just leave my vote.
And I’d like it to be the same with my posts. If you have something to write, share it. But if you don’t, don’t force yourself to come up with anything.
To me your comment is valuable. I know I am not the only one believing I have nothing to share. I can write, I meet trolls daily (not here) which takes away the mood to. Mood as in one has to be in the writing mood. If no vote and no reply it's no read. I never cared too much since I know I am not the first to reply but if I click though my vote ain't much.
It's good to know that I'm not alone in this either :)
Many of us never receive a reply. I noticed there are who do post but did not leave 1 comment during more than 2 years. If that happens more than once (you can check their account the comments and replies) it's better to move on. There's no need to invest time and a vote in someone who only cares about himself.
I agree it's not always easy to write or comment. There are times the right words lack because many if not we all have to translate, or we are speechless but if you want to grow you have to invest in connecting. If you only come to drain others the votes will stop just like the comments.
Btw this is a good comment.
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A good tip. Next time I'll check to see if anyone responds to comments at all before I post mine.