人生无常：从父亲患癌到珠海惨案的生命思考

这段时间因为父亲查出癌症，心情一直很低落、压抑。回想几个月之前，我们一家人还高高兴兴地去海边旅行赶海，生活居然会在两三个月之间发生天翻地覆的变化，真是有常必无常啊。

本来觉得父亲已是非常不幸，本来很硬朗的身体，居然被癌症之王找上了门。但这两天在新闻上看到的一则重大新闻，让我更深刻地感受到：岁月静好的生活总是暂时的，人生无常才是永恒的真理，所以一定要珍惜当下。这件事就是在珠海体育场发生的汽车蓄意撞人事件，造成重大伤亡。

这两年以来，驾车伤人的事件屡见报道，但往往都会很快被删帖封禁，避免造成太大的社会影响，引起效仿作用。当然这也是官方的一厢情愿而已。这类事件仍然呈现越来越多的趋势，也有一部分被当做司机失误驾驶来处理。这其中的真真假假也很难分辨。但珠海的这次事件，可以明确就是蓄意的报复社会，且伤亡人数巨大，官方承认的已经有35人死亡。

相比我们家的情况，这起事件中遇难者的家属经受的是更加突然和巨大的变化。今天不想谈论这件事情的社会原因、经济原因，只想从人的情感角度出发感慨一下：人生无常，活在当下是多么重要，不要总是怀着人定胜天的想法。个人、家庭在社会大趋势和生老病死的自然规律面前，根本就渺小得不值一提。

逝去的人或即将逝去的人，他们的命运已然注定。也许活着的人的命运也早已确定，但毕竟未来还是未知的。只有把握当下，继续向前看，继续生活下去，过好每一天才是最重要的。毕竟总有一天，我们也会迎来那个终点。

按照佛教的说法，万事万物都是由因果决定的，而这个因果并不是常人能够参透的，所以，凡事问心无愧，也不要有什么悔恨，很多事情因缘并非由你而起。就像珠海的这次惨案，在警方的第一次通报中提到凶手是因为对法院的离婚判决不满，才生起报复社会的心思。那些遇难者与此事毫无关联，却仍然受到了这件事情因果的牵连，这也是世事无常的一种形式吧。

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这段时间因为父亲查出癌症，心情一直很低落，很压抑。回想几个月之前，我们一家人还高高兴兴的去海边赶海，事情生活居然会在两三个月之间发生天翻地覆的变化，真是有常必无常啊。哎呀本来觉得父亲真是不幸，但是这。两天在新闻上，他的身体怎么就被癌症之王上了身。但是这经营的一个重大新闻，让我感受到生活就是这样。岁月静好的生活总是暂时的人生无常才是永恒的真理，所以一定要珍惜当下，这件事情就是在珠海体育场发生的汽车蓄意撞人，造成重大。伤亡的事件。可以说，这两年以来，驾车伤人的事件屡屡见到报道，但是往往都会很快被删帖封禁，避免造成太大的社会影响，引起效仿作用。当然这也是官方的一厢情愿而已。这类的事件仍然呈现越来越多的趋势，也有一部分被当做司机职物驾驶来处理。这其中的真真假假。也很难分辨。但是珠海的这次事件，比说可以明确就是蓄意的报复社会，且伤亡人数巨大，官方承认的已经有35人死亡了。相比如我们家的情况，这些这起事件中的遇难者，那么家属经受的是更加突然和巨大的变化。今天不想谈论这件事情的社会原因，经济原因只想从。从人的情感的角度出发，只想随便感慨一下，人生无常，活在当下是多么的重要，不要总是怀着人定胜天的。人类个人家庭，其实在社会大趋势，生老病死的自然规律面前根本就渺小的不值一提。逝去的人或者那些即将逝去的人，他们的命运矜此决定了，也许活着的人的命运。早已也早已确定，但毕竟未来还是未知的，只要当下略微向前看，继续生活下去，过好每一天才是最重要的。毕竟总有一天，我们也会迎来那个终点，其生活在把改变的过去当中面向充满各种可能性的未来。且按照佛教的说法，万事万物都是由因果决定的。而这个因果。并不是通人能够参透的，也不要有什么后悔。就像这件事，珠海的这次惨案在警方的第一次通报当中介绍了原因，但是后来删掉了凶手是因为法院对他的他对法院给他的离婚判决不满，才生起报复社会的心思的那些遇难者所以这起事情，根本就是罚干是打不着的人，却仍然受到了。这件事情的因果的基因，这也是世事难料的一种形式吧。

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During this time, because my father was diagnosed with cancer, my mood has been very low and depressed. Recalling a few months ago, our family still happily went to the seaside to catch the sea, life will actually take place in two or three months, it is often impermanent ah.

Originally, I thought my father was unfortunate, but these two days I saw a major news on the news, which made me feel more deeply: the years of quiet and good life is always temporary, and the impermanence of life is the eternal truth, so we must cherish the present. This is the incident that happened in Zhuhai stadium car deliberately hit people, causing heavy casualties.

In the past two years, the incident of driving injury has been reported repeatedly, but it is often quickly deleted and banned to avoid causing too much social impact and causing imitation. Of course, this is official wishful thinking. Such incidents are still showing a growing trend, and some are treated as drunk drivers. It's also hard to tell what's true and what's false. However, the Zhuhai incident is clearly a deliberate revenge against society, and the number of casualties is huge, officially admitted to have been 35 people died.

The families of those killed in this incident have experienced much more sudden and dramatic change than our own. Today I do not want to talk about the social reasons and economic reasons for this matter, just want to sigh from the perspective of human emotions: life is impermanent, how important it is to live in the moment, and do not always have the idea that man can conquer heaven. Individuals and families are simply insignificant in the face of social trends and the natural laws of birth, old age, illness and death.

The dead or the dying, their fate is sealed. Perhaps the fate of the living has already been decided, but after all, the future is still unknown. Just look forward to the moment a little bit, move on, and take each day as it comes. After all, one day, we will also come to that end.

According to Buddhism, everything is determined by cause and effect, and this cause and effect is not something that ordinary people can understand, and there is no regret. For example, in the Zhuhai tragedy, it was mentioned in the first police report that the murderer was dissatisfied with the divorce decision of the court, and only then did he have the mind to retaliate against society. The victims had nothing to do with it, but they were still implicated in it, which is a form of uncertainty.