Contest - the importance of family in our life. | by @nafeela

nafeela (56)Verifiedin Steem For Pakistan • last year (edited)

Asslamu Alikum

Family can be defined as "A group of people living together connected by the relation of love and care". A family is considered as one of the biggest blessing a living being can have. Today I'm writing to take part in the contest The Importance of Family in our Life organized in Steem for Pakistan community, let's get started.

^{Me standing in the middle with my Mamoos and khalos.}

Importance of Family in a person's life

A Family is a very crucial pillar for an individual. They keep one motivated, strong and provides a feeling of comfort and safety.
It is often that our personalities and behavior are adopted and inherited very much from our families.

I realized it over time that our grooming and the way our families act around us plays a very big impact on our way of thinking, speaking precisely, mentality.
_{But even after having well mannered backgrounds some children fail to learn the basics of life. To whom the blame goes? I can't say a word}

^{I and @nxzeehx.}

Some key factors that make family an important part of our lives

Discipline and Behavior are two important factors that majorly depends on grooming. The atmosphere provided by all family members creates a noticeable impact on an individual enhancing it's way of living.
Some traits of behavior are also inherited from genetics.

The family members are the ones who will teach you from taking your first step to driving a car, knotting a tie. It can be either guiding to cook or learning to work in a challenging environment. Each and every step we take is taught by our families support.

^{I and my sister with our mama.}

When my mama stood by me

I wasn't very good with my studies during matriculation and performed worse in 1st year.

I showed a bad result with one compart. That was when I realized this will only destroy my future so I told my family that I want to re-attempt first year. My father declined to support my decision as according to him I won't be able to improve my marks and this will only result in waste of another year but, My Mama stood by me. She stood against Baba for my sake. I still am proud of that decision of mine which actually proved my baba wrong. I was very satisfied with my result and I am happy that my mama stood with me at that time. That was the movement I knew mama will always support me no matter what.

Personal Experience

I would say if some one assumes me to be a good person that is what I am taught by my mama. If you see me as a bad person the blame goes to my depression and trauma somehow. Moving forward my Mother has given me all the necessities of life. I never came across the thought of lacking a thing. Alhumdulillah

^{My mamoo applying hinna on my sister's hands.}

My mother side of family my Mamoo and Khalas always treat us (me and my sister) as their own kids. They are literally one the the biggest blessings I have Alhumdulillah.

I'm not afraid to hop in a fight or to do something that I want to do unless it's not a bad thing because I know my Mamoos will always be there to protect and support me at any cost.

^{I and @nxzeehx.}

I always forced my Sister to talk on my behalf when ever I would get into a casual fight with a friend. She would just tell them to be nice with me. I know I was a dumb kid. hehe

Family are people not only with blood relations but sometimes friends and strangers become unreplaceable families. Along with these humans I regard my pets as my family too, they all are like an emotional support center for me. May Allah protect our families Ameen.

I'll invite @nxzeehx @aminasafdar @wintia23 to participate.
Link to the contest
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