hello @sandracarrascal,
I agree with you when you say that "you have to be unique but not to the extreme", it is sad to see that the only thing that the current system values are the stereotypes that millions of people blindly follow, when a person acts like someone they are not, that ends up hurting their self esteem, being unique is simply showing yourself as you are to other people so that they value you for who you really are and not being valued simply for projecting something you are not and that only hurts you.