Ways to be forgiving
When someone wrongs us, we expect forgiveness from him. But if he does not ask for forgiveness himself, then there is no point in suffering for no reason. Instead, he should try to forgive himself. It is natural to expect forgiveness from someone who has wronged you. But sometimes it helps to realize that maybe you don't need it.
Waiting for forgiveness will only hurt you. So it is better not to pay attention to that. An apology is certainly good. But it's also true, there is nothing magical about saying 'I'm sorry' that will help you forgive that person from your heart. So instead of waiting for someone to apologize, forgive yourself.
There is nothing wrong with expressing your feelings. Rather, hiding feelings is unhealthy. Find someone you trust and make a place to talk to them or apologize. If you feel uncomfortable to open up to someone, then you can write anonymously in any newspaper or blog. The bottom line is, express yourself in any way you can. No relationship can survive without honesty. So you should be honest with yourself, family friends and even your partner. So if someone has wronged you, instead of waiting for him to apologize, you should think about how to solve it and settle it by talking.
There may be situations where you were right from start to finish. It may also be that you were responsible for the behavior of the person who treated you badly. Your actions made him behave badly. So one should always observe one's own actions without blaming.
The hardest part of forgiving is letting go of that feeling. But it is ultimately better to 'let go' than to waste time holding on to your bad feelings. You can have a life of happiness, inspiration and peace without hatred, anger, hurt. And if you can use the matter of forgiveness, it will bring good luck.
