Greetings friend @josevas217, many times we say words without thinking about the damage they can generate, it is real that we must think about things a little before saying them, or not say them in a way that feels aggressive because that can cause harm to people without realizing it, and even more so if it is a person who appreciates us, usually the words that we say, and come to mark us somehow are not forgotten, either for good or bad, so it is good to think before acting, excellent article for reflection friend Jose.