I haven't read it all the content because it's already 11 in the evening here. I'm just being honest because whenever I'll encounter your post I read it most of the time. But I still managed to learn that it's your birthday.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MORE BIRTHDAYS TO COME...
Your wife didn't listen when you said about not to celebrate that much during your birthday. However as a loving wife she needs to. She's not oblige but she just want to.. Have a nice day and bless day in your birthday.