Contest| "The Married and the Single"

Hello my friends,

My name is Peace Bala
With the username @peacebala
From Nigeria

I welcome you with a very warm smiles to my blog, this is a very interesting topic that will help all the participants to air out their minds about the topic "The Married and the Single" I want to share all I know and feel about this topic and I want to wish everyone the best.

What do you enjoy most during this singlehood time?

Singlehood is very enjoying because from the look of things, once you are married, it is always difficult to have your complete freedom to whatever you want to do. One of the things I know I am enjoying in my singlehood is the fact that I do not have a baby to wake up very early to take care of, sometimes I wake up around 8am why because no stress so there is much stress in marriage than singlehood.

Marriage is an institute of its own, there is no any quality time for yourself, is either you think of your children or husband so you see, in this singlehood you can decide not to do anything for a whole day and nothing will change.

Do you think being single limits someone from big things in life?

Not at all. Singlehood is the best time for great exploits, its a time where you as a person can go to everylength with your power to be able to achieve all you want as a person, but when you are married, there are limits to your movement and interactions with people.

In this singlehood, I can decide to move out of the country without thinking much but just to think of my parents and siblings but as a married woman she cannot just leave without her husband's knowledge.

Have you ever wished to be married?

I wont lie because even if I lie, there is no gain at all. I have never wished to be married not even a single day because I just graduated from Secondary School and I am at my very teenage age so for no reason should I even think of marriage.

I have seen a lot of sweet relationship crumbling after marriages, which then means that, it is better to reman in singlehood than to be married. I have a specific time in life I will start wishing to be married but not now because studies is my wish for now.

So far, have you learned any lessons from singlehood?

Alots! Every bright of the day we face alot of challenges, mistakes, problems and somany others but we learn from it every blessed day. I learn alot and I am still learning, I will keep learning till the day I graduate into marriage hood.

• I have learnt to be myself because bad company currupts good manners.

• Carefulness in decision making

• I see it as a challenge when I don't have money to run some things but I have learnt to be firm in all.

Thank you my friends, I invite my friends to read through my post.

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