Choices! What will it be? #45

Hello beautiful ladies in the Steem for Ladies community, it is another great opportunity to share my thoughts with you today in this week's Choices what will it be? organized by our amiable lady, @patjewel. Thank you once again for the sp and the booming vote gifted me at the last contest. Among all the five things mentioned, I choose Kiss may be because I love kissing so much or perhaps because kissing is a way of greeting people whatever the case is, you are yet to find out.

First what is kiss? I would like to define kiss as a way of expressing affection or love towards a person or thing. There are various ways of expressing affection or love towards a person and kissing is one of them.

Kiss can also be a way of greeting. The world is of full of diverse people with various cultures. In many cultures, cheek kisses are friendly ways to greet a family member, friend, or someone you are introduced to. From the movies I have watched, Indians greet people by kissing their hands. Kissing are at different degrees and of different types such as:

1. Lip Kiss
2. French Kiss
3. Forehead Kiss
4. Neck Kiss
5. Peck Kiss
6. Cheek Kiss
7. Bite Kiss
8. Hand Kiss
9. Lizard Kiss
10. Earlobe Kiss
11. Air Kiss
12. Butterfly Kiss
13. Holy kiss
14. Judas kiss etc.

I will want to talk about a few types of kiss.

HOLY KISS

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In the account of 1 Corinthians 16:20 "Greet one another with a holy kiss" and Romance 16:16 , a kiss on the cheek was used for greeting which implied friendship and acceptance. A kiss of greeting between Christians.

JUDAS OR BETRAYAL KISS

This is in the account of Matthew 26:47-56, Mark 14:43-50 and John 18:3-12. This is the type of kiss that Judas Iscariot used to betray Jesus. We should be very careful about betrayal kiss by friends especially in the public. I know it may be difficult to know at times, most especially if it is a culture in your society but still if you have the spirit of discernment, you should be able to know when strange friends kiss or greet you in a strange way they have not greeted you before.

INTIMATE OR ROMANTIC KISS

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I will classify some of the types of kiss as intimate. As an adult, when you are in a relationship the first action of getting intimate is through a kiss. This type of kissing is always mouth to mouth engagement of one partner sucking the upper lip while the other partner sucks the lover part of the lip. It graduates from the lips to taking turns to suck each others tongue and exchanging of saliva. This is the type of kiss that is usually displayed at wedding ceremonies after couples might have exchanged marital vows and the marriage officiating minister then say "you may kiss your bride". It is always emotional moment of expression of how much they had desired each other.

To really enjoy a good romantic moment that leads to a rewarding sexual experience, engaging in a foreplay that starts with a long lasting kiss is advisable. As a woman this gets your system relaxed and ready for the main action. Kiss is very important because it brings out the soft part of every human. If you have ever watched an action film and you see how the hardest man kisses a lady he is in love with, you will always see the soft part of that man no matter how strong he may appear. I have had experience of long lasting romantic kisses with my boyfriend before getting married. It is so unfortunate that we did not get married because all my sweet experiences have become a thing of the past. Despite my love for kiss, I finally got married to a man who is so hard in everything including getting intimate. In his mind he thinks acting that way makes him a man. To me it doesn't, it shows how weak and incompetent he is.

Real men are men who are romantic to their partners. Your ability to know the right skill to use to soften your woman and take her to a higher climax in bed makes you to be in control. That is when you are able to earn a woman's respect and submission because everything is borne out of love and love is a feeling from emotion which is spur by some actions and kissing is a very important part of it.

The reason I am having this experience is because I was too spiritual when I wanted to get married. I did not date him and we did not discuss about so many things as a result I have to adjust to so many of his attitude. Though being spiritual about marriage is not bad, being too spiritual is wrong. If you are a young lady reading this post, I will encourage you to date a man first before accepting his proposal and during this period, discuss your likes and dislikes especially about romantic or intimate life so that if the man is ready to adjust to suite your desire he tells you, if not you know what you are going into.

I know there are some people who do not like kissing naturally, but it is a simple skill that can be learned if only any of the partners is ready to adjust.

Kiss is a very rewarding experience in romance and I know about it health benefits such as:

• It boosts confidence, having a good romantic kiss with your partner helps to boost each other's confidence.

• Reduces heart diseases, since kiss is emotional in nature when having a kiss it makes one happy and relax thereby having peace of mind which reduces the risk of having high blood pressure and other heart diseases.

• Kiss improves mental health, having the thought of being loved increases confidence that improves mental stability.

If you are type that does not like kissing because of some reasons which may include mouth odour, bad breath, dirty or brownish teeth. You have to take care of both your oral health. See a Doctor or better still always brush your teeth with a good toothpaste and take turns to clean your teeth. If those issues are taken care of, go ahead and enjoy your romantic moment with lots of kisses and you will never regret it.

Thanks my friend @wakeupkitty for your invite. Let my steemian lady friends @uduak01, @preshy001 and @woka-happiness to share their choices with us.

Thank you for reading to the end.