a girl who spent a month in dar ul Aman told me this story, and some even more unbelievable ones.I totally agree with your second and third points. but there is a But in each case. Most girls do such things who are forcefully suppressed. Usually rebellion develops when they are treated in an unjust way. I saw many girls who open a Choor darwza and deceive their families, bcoz their family didn't give them the right of freedom....Tali dono hatho sa bajti h ...is Tara ki situations mn bi qasoor dono taraf ka hota h..PS: even in such cases, honour killing is not justified anyway.....