THE DAIRY GAME BY @SUPERWISDOM || WHAT HAPPENS IN MAKING FRIENDSHIP
INTRODUCTION
Hello my fellow steemians, it is a great pleasure to be alive to be among the grace given people to see another day.
THE DAIRY
My name is Zeblon Ororoemi I am a very open person, someone who is willing to assist at every point in time, and am someone who likes making friends on social media as they say human beings are like water they can meet at anywhere any time.
Sometimes last year I met a friend on social media we where always having conversations on different occasions but after some times after asking ourselves of many other things we became good friends, we fortunately found ourselves in one location I mean same town, I went to visit her we played she introduced me to her siblings and later about few months later she also visited me.
You see in my family when a stranger keeps coming to our house my mum will always love to know who the person is and where the person is located since her son or daughter is a friend to that person. I and this lady were very close but there was not intimacy relationship between us but just good friends. We give advice to each other and so on.
After sometimes we were not talking that much again when I travelled out to another different location, we call each other once in a while, but at a point she no longer call me again, it been a while so I see that if I don't talk to her or call her she will not call. You see when only one person makes all the calls in a friendship situation it creates gap in your friendship. I later realised that it is because she has started having feelings for me and am not looking at her that is why she stop telling me things or calling me regularly like she use to.
Most time some friends often ends like that. Since my presence in her life may be a factor of people not coming to her is possibility I decided to stay away from her but at least trying to get in touch with her once in a while.
When I was in school I have too male friends close to me very well, we eat together once in a while, we also go to school to study and after spending four years in school and graduated together at once. We got posted for NYSC into different states to serve. One of them was not having a good smart phone at hand then. When we departed I was posted to Adamawa and one of them was posted to Cross rivers and the third one was posted to Benue state.
Fast forward to after one year of service we met again.
After one year, one of them decided to get married I went to arrange things with him after he was done with his marriage if I don't call him I will not hear from him for weeks. There are many things that can make you forget friends, their attitude towards asking after someone, I keep calling to hear from him, he could not even buy a smart phone, at the other one still has smart phone so we use to communicate well. Right now as am speaking I have not hear from that one that get married for over 6 months, I got tired of making the calls all the time, since he his not even on social media like I use to. And whenever I call him he will keep asking me many questions.
THE LADY IN MY HEART BACK IN SCHOOL
I have this friend she was my class mate I use to like this girl very well, I even wanted to date her but it did not happen, we were so close even though I was not her Boyfriend then many people thinks we were dating, some even got into fight with her because of me. They said because of her am not looking at any lady in the class again, One day I went to ask after her in her hostel when we were in year one. She came out talking to me like we are fighting, telling me to go and date those girls that are after me and leave her, I was like what is happening, I have to calm her down first and then she told me the whole story behind the anger. You see when you are in a close friendship or relationship many people get jealous over it.
One thing I noticed is that even people in other departments has known the kind of relationship we had so each time I go to their hostel they will call her for me. 😀 Because there is this rock near the football field where I and her use to seat near their hostel people walking by use to see us together so they have been tagging us like Boyfriend and Girlfriend. Some even confronted me that what is the relationship between I and this girls Yetunde, even when I tell them we are just friends they will say it is a lie. This is a lady I asked out for like two years but since I see that she doesn't want to date me we became good friends, since we were course mates. In the class they believe we are dating but it is not.
As at the point of writing this report, we have not spoken for over a year and half. This is because she doesn't call I have been the one calling, she is not even on WhatsApp to talk to people. Before she ẹ ń use to come online once a while but it been a year plus I heard her voice.
One of my class mate whom I was not so closed with once visited me in my house, since he stayed with us for about 4 days I was at home alone and he was at home alone too in the nearby town then.
After he left several months after he told me he his in Dubai I told him he is lying. He told me I should come over so that I can work there but I told him I don't have such cash to do that he then.
Fast forward he called my mum and talked to her. When he came back to Nigeria he called me one early morning asking me if am going to come to Dubai I said how, he said I should answer first. I told him I don't have such money. He then told he has spoken to my mother and that it is in my hand if I will go. When I spoke with my mother she agreed that if I will go no problem she will found it.
He told my mum #200,000 will be needed. I went to meet him we did the passport, that was 2018
This passport will expire on 2023 August. So at a point the way he was doing is suspicious the day he told me things will be ready nothing was ready. After sometimes I called him after expecting his calls for days. I now called him and he told me he was scammed. It was so painful I have even prepared myself.
CONCLUSION
Having friends is good because every friends you have is a friend for the future, some may lead you to success while some may make you regret. There are two side to it.
Thanks for taking your time to read this...
Have I nice day.