My Dream Spouse- Top 4 Qualities I would Love You to HavesteemCreated with Sketch.

in SteemAlive4 years ago (edited)

It’s February guys! It’s the month of love and this write up challenge is quite timely ... I should have fun writing this...lol. Hope you enjoy your read too!

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Let’s assume this is me and my spouse please...lol
Photo credit- Google

I love Love and I believe Love is a beautiful thing and should be experienced by everyone in this life. It’s mysterious to me although the Love of Christ for the church best explains it to me. Love is unconditional and very wholesome...almost magical!
Someone once told me, Love is a decision...Love is work. I totally believe the first.

While writing this, I am permitted to put on my dream hat and think of the top 4 qualities I would love my spouse to have.(I wish He can read this too)

TOP 4 QUALITIES I WOULD LOVE MY SPOUSE TO HAVE!

  1. He should be a believer- A God-fearing one
    This always makes top of the list for me. He needs to loveGod and understand the love of God for us too. He needs to have the fear of God which should be the bedrock of His life. This way, because He understands God’s love, he can be able to love me properly. Without this quality, we can’t even be together.

    • He should be Caring*
      For me, A caring man is a loving man.His heart should be large enough to accommodate his family and others too. I love attention ,Yes, so I need him to be caring and sensitive too(they go hand-in-hand I guess). He should understand the need for care in relationship with your spouse and with every other person out there.
  2. He should be supportive
    A supportive man will be able to lend a hand and a push too to his wife to also fulfill her purpose in life while she supports him too. He needs to understand the principle of partnership in marriage .

  3. He should be Peaceful*
    When there is Peace in a home, it creates the right atmosphere for love ,faithfulness,growth,expansion and joy! A man that is peaceful is a wise man.He needs to have this quality amidst being intelligent.

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Me after telling this semi love story

CONCLUSION
It’s not wrong to desire certain qualities from your spouse (future or present) as long as you have the capacity to accommodate those qualities and also be able to offer them too.

Thank you @focusnow and @steemalive for this challenge .
Hope you enjoyed your read too.

Thank you!

cc : @steemalive

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