Dairy game: attending the burial of my mother inlaw and brother in-law, a painful experience|| 10% payout to @steemalive

in SteemAlive2 years ago (edited)

INTRODUCTION

So much has happened since this year both good and bad. The good brought joy and happiness, while the bad brought about pain and sadness, I think that's what life is all about. But I give God thanks in all. Thanks for visiting my dairy today,as you go through it.

Sometime around late November last year 2021 my husband came home all sad, I inquired what the problem was,only for him to disclose to me that his mum, my mother inlaw is dead. She is quite old and has been battling sickness for a long time, I remember going to visit her with food and my husband bought series of drugs for her,she gets better and falls sick again.

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It was really a sad news as, that was the same period I lost a cousin brother of mine,who was buried 3rd of December,I couldn't attend due to I was very heavy with my child. Since then plans has been on going in preparation for the burial.
By January the news of my save delivery,went round and another sister in-law of mine also put to bed which brought smiles on the faces of everyone.

While we were still rejoicing a bad news struck again, my husband's elder brother who was also running around for his mother's burial fell ill, he visited s nurse who gave him a wrong diagnosis and started treatment for hepatitis,which later affected his kidneys, he was rushed to FMC federal medical center in owerri, to the emergency ward, because his case became critical, he was no longer stooling or passing out urine for the past one week. Everything was done to save his life, so much money spent but he still died after spending one week at the hospital.

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When my husband gaveme the bad news I shed tears because, he was not so old, he has 4 children that are still all below age 15 and his was wife is heavily pregnant too. He was loved by so many people, the news of his death brought great sorrow in their community.
They were both buried on the same day, being the 26th of April. I traveled home with my family for the burial and I thank God everything went well. Friends and family showed up.

APPRECIATION

Am back home,and I thank God it all went well, I also want to thank @focusnow and @steemalive for thier concern and care so far.

Best regards

Cc
@focusnow
@steemalive

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 2 years ago 

Hi @ceendy20,

Good to hear from one.First off, congratulations for a safe delivery.God is a wonderful and HE will do more.

I feel your pains as regards to the loses so far.From your husband side you lost mother inlaw and brother in-law.Thats a painful experience.May the Almighty grant you the fortitude to bear the loss.

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 2 years ago 

Thank you @samuel20 for those kind words, it's soothing for this period

 2 years ago 

Oh what a painful experience.
May the Lord comfort your entire family, grant the wife strength in Jesus name.

Sometimes it's good to visit more than 1 hospital to avoid wrong diagnosis and Nigeria government need to checkmate our health system to avoid such stories.
My condolences please

 2 years ago 

Good advice, and I advise people visit good laboratories before starting any form of treatment. Thank you very much for your kind words

It was such a painful experience, burning two lovely people the same day is not easy. May their souls rest in peace

 2 years ago 

Amen, thank you so much

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