The text sounds familiar, we've all been there and nothing is as difficult as discuss something since most people never learned how to discuss. It's more like a fight whose right and whose wrong which shouldn't be the point. More important is to exchange thoughts and discover why we look different at the same situation or topic because?
It's hard to walk in someone's shoes if vision is blurred, if brainwashed or there's tunnelvision something you rarely are aware of.