Life: Must We Sacrifice Ourselves To Prove Loyalty
The world we are living in is bigger and reading the minds of others or pleasing someone is one of the hardest things to do in life, as the more you are trying to make someone feel happy it is the more you're displeasing yourself. I would say life is all about understanding one another and then working towards achieving a common goal, and not one person working towards making his or her partner feel happy.
It is just like a guy and a girl who are in a relationship, with one partner one the other partner whereas the other partner is not reciprocating the love that is shown to him or her. When you love someone or have human sympathy, it is good to show some loyalty, but not too good to sacrifice yourself to the point of losing your life, because if you eventually do, the person whom you have sacrificed your life for, would find someone else.
Just as I have read in the post of @wakeupkitty.pal
"There's no need to figure out who you are by cross-border behavior, taking risks, jumping off cliffs, robbing the elderly, or water skiing if you can't stand water. There's no need to be the same or better than millions of others. What counts is that we all are us. Me, you, we have the right 'to be'."
From the statement and about my post, I have come to understand that no matter how you think you can sacrifice yourself for someone, you will be forgotten and be blam of your actions at the end of the day. It is good to help, but to the point where you will lose your precious life trying to please someone who doesn't care about you. I have seen a lady that sacrifices herself to be raped on behalf of her friend that was operated on an appendix.
Once upon a time as this lady and her roommates were sleeping thieves broke into their apartment and demanded their phones which weren't with them because they were charging them in their neighbor room. After so many arguments they had with the thief he demanded that he must sleep with one of them, and the thief dragged the girl who was operated on with an appendix.
Out of love, the other girl shouted please leave her alone and take me instead so she would not die, because of her illness she just came out of the hospital after being operated on with an appendix. The thief immediately let her go and grabbed the girl the girl that pleaded on her behalf out of the room and raped her.
Despite what happened, the other girl began blaming the girl who saved her life for not being a good friend enough. To be continued......