Yes this is absolutely right . Life is just like cart . Two wheels needed it to drive . Let say one is that some destroy us other is that we allow them to destroy us . The fact is that there are some people whose own family didn't support them we cannot ignore them . We cannot leave them . We destroyed our little part by spending with them . That's pitty . We can't say emotions doesn't effect us . It affects us destructively .
Yes you can say that some people whose are outsiders you can say the world we allow them to break us . That's our fault. We allow them to point out our weak points.