You're right that's why I emphasized in the beginning that not everyone shares the same view. And I agree 'some gifts are better purchased at the store' due to their standard quality although it depends on personal preference. As for me, personal effort behind a gift holds more weight - be it ugly or a beauty. I am not damning our current system; it's convenient and expedient even, I just tend to explore unpopular views on the other side, hence this. I personally think going back to barter system wouldn't be as bad, I think we'd reclaim much of our lost creativity in this way.