The struggle of fathers in meeting family needs

Hello Everyone..

Good afternoon and good activity Steemian friends. I hope you are fine today. Today, I want to share a story about "The struggle of fathers in meeting family needs".

This morning I passed a house, 50 meters from my house and saw a wife accompanying her husband to the front fence of the house.

"Well, the rice is gone ..." said his wife.
Her husband just smiled and prepared to walk, but his steps were stopped by his son's call from inside the house,

"Father ... tomorrow Agus will have to pay practice money".
"Yes ..." answered the father.

Bitter sounds in my ears, what else for that man, I can guess the steps are getting heavier. By the way, I remember my son's message last night, "tomorrow buy a longan yes" and I only answered it with "God willing," hoping my child is not disappointed if tonight this hand is not carrying his favorite fruit.

At the office, a friend receives a stray text,
"Don't forget, go home to buy Nadia's milk, okay?"
Cash only made my friend confused and joked a little, "this, whose child is asking for milk to whom". I also had time to think, maybe if the SMS really gets to the number of the father, added another resentful residing. If there is enough money in the bag, no problem.

What if the opposite...??

Many Fathers brought their depressions every morning, accompanied each step to the office. Wife's complaint last night about spending money that has run out, school fees for children who have been in arrears since last month, baby milk left in the last spoon, pay electricity bills, debts in neighboring stalls that start to often disrupt sleep, and a mountain of other depressions that often make him daydream .

Not a few resilient fathers who want to make his wife smile, convincing their children to calm down with one sentence, "Yes, all Daddy will take care of it" even though his chest is rumbling loudly and his brain is spinning to find a way for his promise to clean up all the anxiety he holds.

So the history goes on, many of the Fathers who end up on a rope, unable to withstand the economic burden that increasingly tangled his neck tightly. For him, the hanger is no different from debt bondage and the whimper of a family that he could never afford. You are also ensnared. the difference is, the hanger laces faster and not slowly.

Not a few fathers who let their hands covered in blood while holding a knife to sacrifice the rights of others in order to resolve his anxiety. Although finally he had to end up in prison. To be sure, endless crying babies in his home, because the milk promised by his father was never bought.

Quite often the fathers are forced to pawn their faith, deceive colleagues in the office, deceive superiors by manipulating numbers, or cheating behind a colleague's desk. His wife and children never knew and never asked where the money the father got. Gosh? Because the important thing was muffled already upset that day.

Very many faithful wives and children awaited the return of his father, until late but the awaited did not return. While far away, the man whose wife and children faithfully waited had been battered, shattered, dying, holding the last breath after being beaten up by a mob furious by his pickpocketing actions. Once again, someone is willing to take this risk for the sake of a handful of anxiety that he must complete.

Really, among the many Fathers, I salute you with some of the other Fathers who still patiently grasped his grief, brought it back home, included it in dreams, complained of it in every long prostration in the middle of the night, until brought it back together in the morning. Hoping there is sustenance that God gave that day, so that one by one the depressed he was still holding.
This father, still believes that God will not leave His servants in kufr due to unrest that never ends.

This father believes that God will not test a servant unless the servant is able to bear it, and he always prejudices good to God by believing that there is no endless trial and the way out will always come to servants who only rely on His help and love. only.

These fathers, who will solve all their distresses without having to create a new one for their families. Because he won't finish his anxiety with a rope, or with his hands covered in blood, or end up behind stuffy bars, or even let someone unknown bring bad news about him being scorched by the masses after being caught pickpocketing.

And I, as a father, will still hold on to my sadness with a smile. I am sure, Allah likes those who smile and lightly step behind all their complaints and grief.

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