You have to find the boundaries between the desires of the extreme, the desires of the object, and the attraction to technology.

What do you mean with "you"?

I left a link to info about Erika Eiffel and many people like her exist and fall in love with objects. So do all those men with blow up dolls for sex, falling in love with their car or bike. There's no need to sign a paper to be committed to something and why get married if you don't want to be with a person or something you don't like? I don't know how many there are but if you say you love your new washing machine or TV is that just an expression? People love new gadgets.