what should you do if your friends often borrow money from you
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I am very excited to share my post for the first time at Boy Like Girl Club today. Whose title is, what should you do if your friends often borrow money from you?
For this, first of all, I want to thank @prudence21, who invited me for this competition.
Borrow:
Borrowing means taking a loan from someone, such as taking something from a person and promising to return it.
If a friend comes to ask for a loan from us, first of all we should know whether he will give us the money borrowed from us or will not give it back.
If a friend really asks for money from us or in some trouble, then we should give him the money, and he should also tell that he has borrowed this money and will have to return it. If that friend is good and honest and is really upset then he will definitely return the money.
But some people also have a habit of asking for borrowing, took it from here, gave it from there. Such people keep harassing people by repeatedly demanding borrowings. Such people should avoid lending.
When someone does not feel like lending, he should clearly say that we do not have money. Or I am not ready to lend at the moment.
If you cannot refuse directly, then tell them that you do not have it at this time and also apologize. In this way, you will avoid lending people whom you do not want to lend.
We should not keep much friendship with such people who have a habit of repeatedly asking for borrowings.
People who show more have most such friends who keep asking for borrowings. Because they are not actually true friends.
They only friendship for money. If refused to lend, their true form comes out.
Often our relatives borrow a lot of money from us and then start finishing the relationship in the name of giving back, the relationship starts coming in the relationship.
Therefore, I believe that if you want to maintain a relationship, then do not be given there, the relationship ends on lending, along with loss and tension also increases.
If you can say as much as you can say, then forget it, then it should not end the relationship and friendship.
According to me, this is the simplest way, when there is no mind to lend to someone, then refuse it directly, very civilized, as we can say. That we gave money to a friend 2 years ago. The friend promised to pay the original and interest within 1 year.
But he could not repay. Now he does not even pick up my phone and the relationship has also deteriorated, so now I do not lend to anyone, because I think the loan ends friendship or relationship. By speaking, you can avoid the front.
And otherwise the best way to refuse a person asking for loan is that brother, I do not keep cash with me.
I hope and believe that you all liked my post.
I invite my 3 friends. @josewas217 @vivigibelis @alasuleidy
When someone does not feel like lending, he should clearly say that we do not have money. Or I am not ready to lend at the moment.
If you cannot refuse directly, then tell them that you do not have it at this time and also apologize. In this way, you will avoid lending people whom you do not want to lend.
We should not keep much friendship with such people who have a habit of repeatedly asking for borrowings.
People who show more have most such friends who keep asking for borrowings. Because they are not actually true friends.
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Great post dear. 😍
Setting clear boundaries about lending money helps keep friendships strong and prevents problems..
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