I believe that if there's a click the possibility to meet and work together can always be realized.
Steemit meetings also have a dark side: being harrassed once they know your face, family be threatened, manipulated, talked into something you don't want, being bullied, fights, a lot f envy and nowhere safe.
I wish I made this up but unfortunately, these things happen as well on Steemit meetings.

I hope in your case the meeting will bring something good.