Steem4nigeria|| DEBATE CONTEST||| Do you think Age Gap is a Problem in a relationship @mahnoor22

in Steem4Nigeria11 months ago (edited)

hello fam hope u both are healthy wealthy and enjoying your life today we talk about the age gape in relationships and its good and bad effects in our life also i will share my age gape relationship experience with you soo grale a cup of coffee and let's dive into beautiful topic research

Do you think Age Gap is a Problem in a relationship?

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INTRODUCTION:

In the world of love and romance, relationships come in all shapes and sizes, including the age difference between partners. Love knows no boundaries, but the huge age gap in love has long been debated. Perceptions of society have evolved over time, but questions remain about the challenges and potential consequences of such unions. The purpose of this article is to examine the pros and cons of the age gap and whether a large age gap should be considered a problem.

Love has no age and boundaries

Love is a powerful force that unites people regardless of age, gender or background. When two people connect on a deep emotional level, factors like age become irrelevant. After all, common interests, mutual respect, and chemistry often play a more important role than age differences in determining relationship success.

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Aspects of casual relationships

  1. Different perspectives:

The advantage of the age difference is the different life experiences of each couple. It creates a broader perspective and allows us to learn from each other's unique knowledge and wisdom.

2.# Emotional Maturity:

Older couples often have higher levels of emotional maturity, which contributes to a stable and nurturing relationship environment. Young friends can benefit from this wisdom and guidance for personal growth.

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  1. Breaking Social Norms:

Interrelationships challenge norms and stereotypes and force society to rethink its views on love and partnership. Doing so may pave the way for further relationships.

Lack of casual relationships

1.# Generational differences:
large age gaps can lead to generational differences in cultural references, interests and life goals. This difference can lead to misunderstandings and communication barriers between partners.

  1. Life stages:

Partners in different life stages may have different priorities and preferences. For example, an older couple may be thinking about retirement, while a young couple is focusing on building a career.

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my family also arranged my marriage in small age and we have also a big age gape so i want to share my experience

MY EARLY AGE EXPERIENCE!

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When I was 15 years old, my father passed away and my mother fell ill. As her only daughter, she began to worry about me. With my father gone and her health declining, she feared that if she were to die, no one would take care of me or show me any concern. So, she made the decision to arrange my marriage with a man who was 35 years old—a significant age difference.

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However, my mother believed that his age would bring more care and understanding towards me, given my young age. Despite having just finished my matric exams with pending results, I agreed to this marriage. But on the first day of our marriage, things took a turn for the worse. He began to scrutinize every little thing I did and would shout at me. Being so young, I was scared of him and would often end up crying. This behavior was extremely distressing, and he even resorted to physical abuse. I endured this silently for three long years. However, one day, while talking to my mom, he started physically hurting me.

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I forgot to end the call, and my mother heard everything that he was doing to me. The next morning, she came to my city with her second husband (whom she married after my marriage). They rescued me from this hellish situation and provided me with a place to stay. My mom explained that her current husband was only willing to help by offering me a house, but nothing more. I assured her that I understood her limitations and thanked her for everything. I promised to take care of myself and to work hard without losing hope until I achieved independence. Nowadays, I have started my journey towards success, and I trust that, by the grace of Allah, I will achieve it. In these days, I have initiated a khula case against him, and I am confident that I will obtain it and begin my life securely. It has made me realize that a significant age gap can make life incredibly difficult and painful. Both parties may struggle to understand each other, especially if one is still young and the other is already mature. Maturity usually comes with age, but it's important to remember that not all mature individuals exhibit such behavior. However, in this world, both good and bad people exist. So, it's crucial to carefully consider every step in life and in relationships.

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Plz tell me your opinion about age gape and don't forget to pray for me

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You are a very strong girl may you get success ij every sphere of life ameen u explained very well

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I don’t think Age gap is a problem for a relationship cause it depend on care and love not on age....

maybe you are ri8 but its just my experience not everyone is same!

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