It's great to see your perspective on the limitations of traditional schooling and the importance of life experience in complementing formal education. Coping with personal challenges like the loss of a loved one indeed requires more than just academic knowledge, and seeking support from others and turning to spirituality can be essential in overcoming such difficult situations. Your view on learning in school as a tool for intellectual growth and problem-solving in real-life situations is insightful, emphasizing the importance of a balanced approach to education. Keep up the thoughtful reflections, and welcome to the community!