Steemit Engagement Challenge S5-W2. My 3 Best Character Vs 3 Worst Characters. By @coolj2

in Steem4Nigeria2 years ago (edited)

Introduction

Character is simply something's personality; the unique thing that makes one different from another. Your character defines who you are. It can also be what people know you with. Your attitude. In this post, i will be listing my three best characters and as well my three worst characters.

List 3 characters of yours that are the best or good characters that you have

  • Fairness
  • Honesty
  • Happy and grateful heart

How do you display them?

  • Fairness: I take people the way they are. I dont judge people. I enjoy giving people chances to express themselves because i believe everyone's opinions counts. Even when am being hurt, i will still like to know the reason why you hurt me.

  • Honesty and Loyalty; At least, i am honest and truthful. Personally, i hate it when people disappoint me so i try as much as i can to keep to my words with people. Loyalty pays. I respect everyone around me as respect is reciprocal. Being loyal helps me to learn so many things i never knew especial from my superiors.

  • Happy and grateful heart: I am a happy person and i put up a smiling face at all times. I never allow anything to take away my smile. When i was in secondary school, someone borrowed my note and deliberately tore it thinking that i will react negatively but i just collected the note and gummed it back. He was surprised and later confessed that he purposely did it to see if i will ever get angry. Above all, I appreciate everything that come my way no matter how small it is.

Would you advise others to display them?
Yes o. If everyone would embrace these three characters or even add them to their good characters, this world will be a very peaceful and loving one.

What are the 3 Worst Characters that you sometimes display that even you condemn?

  • Lateness and working under pressure

  • Too emotional

  • Easily makes promises

  • Lateness: On lateness, especially to work, even if i finish on time, i will still be sluggish to go till it comes to going making me to rush out under pressure to work.

  • Too emotional: Chai i think am a cry baby. I gets broken at every little thing especially when hurt by a loved one. This alone has made to be limited to just few circle of friends.

  • Easily make promises: this character put me under stress most times trying to fulfil my promises to avoid disappointing anyone for promise failed makes the heart sick.

Will you like to stop them?

Yes

* What efforts have you been making towards stopping them?*

  • Lateness and working under pressure. Well, i now set alarm 2times earlier to the time i want and as for working under pressure, i prepare my works small small prior to the day it will be needed to avoid rush hour.

  • Too Emotional: I started learning not to trust too much and as well not to expect so much from people. Instead of crying for everything, am learning and trying on removing my mind from the hurt, instead i will start refreshing on my good memories.

  • Easily make promises: for instance, instead of saying i will gdo it or i will give it to you, i now say, if am free, i will do it or by the Grace of God, if i have, i will give.

This solutions have been saving me gradually recently and i feel good.

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Me and my good friends

Conclusion

One's character is his/her true definition. It can make or mar you. One's good conscience will always direct him/her in knowing which is bad and how to stop it. It is always good we watch our character so it doesnt destroy us. One needs to embrace the good character, nurture them and build on them. A good character brings peace, love, unity and abundance.
I hereby invite @yhudy, @tiananicho and @nenyedarlington to join in this challenge

Special mention

@steem4nigeria

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Having a good character will certainly help us, although sometimes bad characters are not invitations that we deliberately spread, sometimes pressure brings us to the dark side, but it will definitely get better because in fact we don't want that,
Good luck for the contest👍

Thanks dear friend

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