Children Should Be Treated Equally

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Good day my dear steemians, this is your favorite blogger,@bessie2023 so today i will love to write on the topic children are to be treated equally and also be loved by the parents equally. How do we explain who a child is, in this concept a child can be defined as a God-given gift being given by Jehovah. Some of this question really disturbs me most at times, it goes this way, why is it that most of the father need a male child to be the first child, when it Jehovah that give the child and who are we to tell Jehovah the type of child we need.

Now let me take for example, a wife gives birth to a baby girl whereas the husband needed a baby boy, on reaching the house the husband ask her what is the gender of the child and the wife says a girl not even to take anything the husband will say pack out from my house. Most at times things like this do usually happens to we women. The feel that female children are not worth a male child. some times we see how a mother gives birth to the last born and after some years the share some work to everyone in the family expect for the last born, it is called partiality.

So I will love to say a little story of what I observe in the hospital:

Do you know that when my mom put to birth, she told us to visit her the next day, we were so happy that we couldn't even sleep or couldn't even wait till the next morning. The next morning when we were prepared to go to the hospital with my dad, my dad received a phone call, telling him that the need him a the company, so he gave me transport to go to the hospital, and he left while he used his car to the company. Now we reached the hospital, i was so happy to see my mom, i saw my little brother lying beside her, although he was asleep but that didn't stop us from carrying him. After some time i went outside to get pepper porridge yam for her as lunch, i got it then as i was going to give it to her, i over hear a married man tell the wife that if you don't give me a male child i will surely send you packing to your village, the wife was afraid because in the scan she made, it was triplets that were in her womb. I then walk up to her and ask why her husband sounded that way she said that she has four girls already and now she is giving him triplets this time, making it seven girls, hmmm and i breath, and went to deliver the food to my mom.

Then we left for strolling and then what i heard really made me to be shocked, the man that i saw the previous time to the woman that he already know the gender of the child that after paying the hospital bills that she should go straight to the village with her property and her children, she beg the man, but the man paid deaf ears to her. I couldn't go to console her because it was her family matters. After some time my dad came to the hospital with snacks for us. And after some time we went home, i felt pity for the woman. When my mom came back, and she ask me what was bothering me I then told her the whole thing and she told me that i should forget about it.

In conclusion we should always accept our faith no matter what ,in or any circumstances.

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