CONTEST:Courtship !How should it be?

in Steem4Nigeria7 months ago (edited)
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In your own understanding how can you explain courtship to your friend.

Courtship is a process whereby two people or persons accept to be together for a little while and planning for the future
At this process is when someone is trying to a person love or support, this is the stage that is prerequisite to marriage. Prospective couple are those involves in courtship and they is a desire to marry, courtship is not biblical but it's societal cos society accept and recognized courtship but going through the Bible they is no record of courtship.

Do you believe in courtship before marriage.

Yes, cos that is the period or stage you will get to know the person very well, knows the likes and dislikes, his or her attitude, behavior and character, it a building point or stage us to agreed with the person before you go into the so terms journey, in courtship certain things need to be evaluated, the behavior and generally the lifestyle of your partner courtship to a higher percentage is advisable for someone who is about taking the wheels of marriage.

How many years should courtship last before marriage.

The year is not certain but it advisable according to relationship therapist to have 1 to 2 years courtship before marriage proper. This doesn't mean courtship can't last for few months before marriage, in marriage they are certain qualities expecting someone don't jump into marriage like that they are things, qualities, and features you desire and this can be accomplished through the period of courtship and that's why courtship has been accepted as a prerequisite for a successful marriage.

Is courtship a guarantee for successful marriage.

Courtship is not a guarantee for a successful marriage but it play a very vital role for a successful marriage, but taking time during the courtship period to studies and understand your spouse will give you a higher ground for a successful marriage. Courtship needs to be access with all amount of seriousness and carefulness for a positive result to be obtain at last.

What is your say about sex during courtship ? Is it a yes or No to you let's have your reasons.

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Sex wasn't the part of courtship morally courtship didn't give room to sex, is what some people involved themselves to only by their own desire not as the requirements for part of courtship. But to some extent checking or going through his or her report, his fertility can give you a strong backings to abstain from sex. Most people are using sex base on their own opinion to prove ones fertility.

In my own opinion having sex to know how fertilize he or she is a good idea.

Any advice for those in courtship right now.

I want to say that marriage was design for temporary purpose and to that effect courtship is use to evaluate and studies each spouse so make good use of your courtship period and avoid unnecessary excuses, study and signal that come your way and know why it come. Marriage is a good thing do it and received blessings from God.

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 7 months ago 

Nice entry…. Courtship is just for a while and it take two to build and check for compatibility before they plan of marriage

Wish you the best

Thanks for your well wishes

 7 months ago 

that marriage was design for temporary purpose

I guess you mean to say courtship was design for temporary purpose. You should check that

Marriage is a lifetime journey, this is why courtship is designed to be able to study your partner before marriage

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