Brother-making girls

Brother-making girls.

Recently a girl came to me and told me her problem and said that I went to an event and there I met a man who was several years older than me and a father of two children. When we talked, we had a It's nice to talk to someone else. Perhaps it was because our thoughts coincided with each other.
Because of this quality of his, I made him my brother.
Since our mindsets are very similar, we often talk for a long time on many topics.

But now the problem is that at first his wife did not know that he was talking to me. But when she found out about it, she forbade her husband to talk to me. When he refused, his wife started fighting with him. She fights with them on why they talk to me. Due to which he is now very worried. A couple of times I have tried to explain to his wife that there is nothing like that between us.
I have made your husband my brother.
We speak only good things to each other. Never say anything wrong but she is not understanding this. Due to which we are both suffering from mental agony.

I asked this girl, do you not have any brother? To this he replied that yes, I have two brothers but they do not match my mentality. I explained to this girl that even though there are brothers in the house, you are looking for brothers outside. Try to create mental harmony with those who are there in the house. What is the need to make brothers outside?
Right now you have two brothers, but even if a girl has no brother, she should not make a brother out of a boy or even a cousin.
Remember, siblings are only those who are born from parents. In which era are you living? In today's era, if only siblings become siblings, it is a big deal.

This man's wife needs to understand, not you. Because you are single right now, so you don't understand this. Tomorrow, when you get married, your husband will start talking to a girl as his sister. When you understand the feelings of this woman. Instead of explaining this woman, explain yourself. Because the relationship that you both have made has no religious or social status.

As a psychologist, I have noticed that many weak boys and girls in our society, when they cannot give a strong name to their relationship, they try to throw dust in their own and others' eyes by becoming siblings. It is requested to you and girls like you that you do not fall into the cycle of scumbags who make boys brothers.
Making a relationship which has no religious or social status does not achieve anything except mental torture.
Sabir Chaudhry
psychologist