One woman said
One woman said:
"I wasn't surprised when my husband told me he had remarried me, because I could feel it in his eyes. In his facial expressions, and since he Met him, the way he talked to me changed. In fact, I know the day he met him for the first time.
I am a woman, and a woman's sense is never wrong...
But I was surprised when my husband's entire family changed and soon became friends and acquaintances of his second wife.
In just two months... my husband's brother's wife, whom I considered my best friend, invited him to a feast. He and I have been together through good times and bad times. But all this was forgotten. My husband's sister, who got divorced, I was the one who supported her during this difficult time...
I was the one who shared everything with his children, even the Eid clothes I bought for them as my children. I never burdened him.
My husband's other sister, who was out with her husband, used to spend her entire holiday at my house and would ask me for different kinds of food which I would prepare before her arrival... True, she was very She used to bring all the gifts, but she never invited me to her house.
And he kept the new bride in his house for two weeks!
So quickly, everyone started adopting this new one. I who was with him for 20 years, I did good to everyone and never harmed anyone.
There was only one who did not shake his hand and speak to him... so I was told... he was the youngest... and he did not even allow his wife to invite him. I always had him as a younger brother.
Because masculinity and true intentions are unknown from whom you will find... The truth is that people are like metal, and there is a big difference between gold and copper!
I'm not emotional...
I didn't shout, I didn't curse, and I didn't make any of them feel my pain and anger...
I definitely decided to back off, but thoughtfully.
Ever since my brother told him, he promised not to let me live with people who can't be trusted... Thank God I'm in good health and even older now. Didn't happen.
I made a condition with my husband that he should never bring it to my house...!!
Because he kept it in the upper floor of his house
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I had a daughter who was thirteen years old and two sons who were older...
I asked them both not to react harshly against their father.
What is done is done. We have to get our affairs in order first.
It is true that my daughter was sensitive and was somewhat distressed by the matter, but I assured her that there was no use in grieving... and I urged her to ask her father for the gold which he had Was promised... because one day she will also become a bride.
We had a family land which was between me and my brother and another foreign brother... I told my brother to sell it and give me my share... and I also told him that he Buy from me my right in my father's house.
It took several months... During this time I made silence my companion and did not discuss anything...
When my husband's brother's wife came to visit me, I greeted her very coldly... and told her to go to her new friend!
I did the same thing with this foreigner sister and her sister. And I told them plainly that they were not welcome in my house... I did what they did.
I invited my husband's younger brother and his wife... in front of everyone...
His mother had urged me to do well for him... She had spent some months with me. She was a golden woman. She gave me some rare pieces of art... I sent them to my brother's house because they were my gifts and I couldn't leave them for him...
And I did the same thing with all the furniture and utensils that I bought at my own expense and that contained all my memories...
I left him only those things which were his personal and over which I had no right. All this happened in silence!!
Apparently he avoided coming to my apartment these days...
He knew very well that I am a noble woman, but... I am not easily disrespected and I will not be silent... I have many favors for him...
My brother bought me a new house with a suitable location. And I made a bet that there should be a shop in it so that I would not need anyone.
Then my beloved brother, my pride and my support, came and led me with honor and respect to my new home.
She called my husband and told him that the legal process was over, with complete calmness and mutual respect.
True, it hurt me to leave 20 years of my life behind with him, but I had to...
Everyone's oblivious kindnesses including my husband... scared me. And forced me to retreat quietly. It was her right to choose her own life, just as they were. And mine too... But I felt that I couldn't live with this family anymore.
Did I do something wrong?"