Today my article Post
⚜️⚜️ custom ⚜️⚜️
It is customary, sir, that the marriage will be done with fanfare, only then will it be honoured,,, Ten or twelve suits of the boy's sisters-in-law are eligible to be given by the father-in-law of the boy's sister, then the girl will be brought home. People will either be wowed or get rid of bugs in jealousy by arranging marriages, secondly, your greed will never end, so will your children continue to be victims of your greed?
Until when
Today, most of the boys and girls are away from marriage due to lack of money and are close to adultery, the reason is parents. Allah gives sustenance, but the boy does not want to be haram, so take care and marry him simply.
The nose will be cut off in the community, there will be talks, if money does not come in hand for five years, then should you prepare your son or daughter for adultery,,, there are strange, ignorant and greedy parents. Tell me, sir, if the person getting married wants to marry a good girl, but he wants to bring one of his own choice, then what is wrong, the marriage should be hers, not mother's or father's, then the choice of the boy and the girl should also be asked. Islam gives full rights, but money. What kind of Islam is visible in the face of showmanship, greed, status, caste, and what is seen by the ignorant?
Ignorant greedy people can never understand this, saying that they are destroying the lives of their children by their own hands. Explaining to them is like playing a bean in front of a buffalo. Therefore, such children should stand up for themselves, whose parents are showing off and greedy. They are spending the time of marriage, they are not worried about their children, may Allah guide such parents, but it is very difficult.
If the children get married by their desire, then they won't turn their backs, they won't indulge in wrongdoing, there's no need to keep secret friendships, that's why secret friendships are kept. If it flies in the opposite direction from the other, then how and for how long will two such people compromise, surely they will equalize the chicken and dal of the house, because the fear of Allah is not present in the hearts today. Will accept. So why should such conditions be created, children become a sign of dishonor, neither halal sustenance in food, nor Sharia accessories in education, hollow, empty minds, nor thorns, nor sorting, just where the times have brought us, we have become there because the times have left us. I was walking on the road, that's why we also get to hear the same dialogue after every wrong thing
